03 September 2012

Punishable Acts and the Penalties under R.A. 9262 (Anti-Violence Against Women and Children Act)


Punishable Acts

Section 6. Public Crime. – Violence against women and their children shall be considered a public offense, which may be prosecuted upon the filing of a complaint by any citizen having personal knowledge of the circumstances involving the commission of the crime.

Section 7. Acts of Violence Against Women and Their Children. – The crime of violence against women and their children is committed through any of the following acts:
a) Causing physical harm to the woman or her child;
b) Threatening to cause the woman or her child physical harm;
c) Attempting to cause the woman or her child physical harm;
d) Placing the woman or her child in fear of imminent physical harm;
e) Attempting to compel or compelling the woman or her child to engage in conduct which the woman or her child has the right to desist from or to desist from conduct which the woman or her child has the right to engage in, or attempting to restrict or restricting the woman’s or her child’s freedom of movement or conduct by force or threat of force, physical or other harm or threat of physical or other harm, or intimidation directed against the woman or her child. This shall include, but not limited to, the following acts committed with the purpose or effect of controlling or restricting the woman’s or her child’s movement or conduct:
1. Threatening to deprive or actually depriving the woman or her child of custody or access to her/his family;
2. Depriving or threatening to deprive the woman or her children of financial support legally due her or her family, or deliberately providing the woman’s children insufficient financial support;
3. Depriving or threatening to deprive the woman or her child of a legal right;
4. Preventing the woman in engaging in any legitimate profession, occupation, business or activity, or controlling the victim’s own money or properties, or solely controlling the conjugal or common money, or properties;
f) Inflicting or threatening to inflict physical harm on oneself for the purpose of controlling her actions or decisions;
g) Causing or attempting to cause the woman or her child to engage in any sexual activity which does not constitute rape, by force or threat of force, physical harm, or through intimidation directed against the woman or her child or her/his immediate family;
h) Engaging in purposeful, knowing, or reckless conduct, personally or through another,  that alarms or causes substantial emotional or psychological distress to the woman or her child. This shall include, but not be limited to the following acts:
1. Stalking or following the woman or her child in public or private places;
2 Peering in the window or lingering outside the residence of the woman or her child;
3 Entering or remaining in the dwelling or on the property of the woman or her child against her/his will;
4 Destroying the property and personal belongings or inflicting harm to animals or pets of the woman or her child;
5 Engaging in any form of harassment or violence; and
i) Causing mental or emotional anguish, public ridicule or humiliation to the woman or her child, including, but not limited to, repeated verbal and emotional abuse, and denial of financial support or custody of minor children or denial of access to the woman’s child/children.

Section 8. Penalties – In relation to Sec. 7 hereof, the acts complained of are punishable with the provisions set forth in this Section:
a) Acts falling under Section 7(a) constituting attempted, frustrated or consummated parricide or murder or homicide shall be punished in accordance with the provisions of the Revised Penal Code. If these acts resulted in mutilation, it shall be punishable in accordance with the Revised Penal Code; those constituting serious physical injuries shall have the penalty of prision mayor; those constituting less serious physical injuries shall be punished by prision correctional; and those constituting slight physical injuries shall be punished by arresto mayor.
Acts falling under Section 7 (b) shall be punished by imprisonment of two (2) degrees lower than the prescribed penalty for the consummated crime as specified in the preceding paragraph but shall in no case be lower than arresto mayor.
b) Acts falling under Section 7(c) and 7(d) shall be punished by arresto mayor;
c) Acts falling under Section 7(e) shall be punished by prision correccional;
d) Acts falling under Section 7(f) shall be punished by arresto mayor;
e) Acts falling under Section 7(g) shall be punished by prision mayor;
f) Acts falling under Section 7(h) and Section 7(i) shall be punished by prision mayor.
If the acts are committed while the woman or child is pregnant or committed in the presence of her child, the penalty to be applied shall be the maximum period of penalty prescribed in this section.
In addition to imprisonment, the perpetrator shall (a) pay a fine in the amount of not less than One hundred thousand pesos (P100,000.00) but not more than Three hundred thousand pesos (P300, 000.00); and undergo mandatory psychological counseling or psychiatric treatment and shall report compliance to the court.

241 comments:

  1. Attorney good morning,
    I am Lalai legal age of 32,i am complaining the father of my child he was abandoned my child to remarry another woman in Islam last last year 2013 in June,and he was marriage to the 1st wife last June 27,1994 and have a child to other woman last 2008,then i am also the second woman have a baby Jan,2013,and now the 3rd woman he remarry they got married June 28,2013 have a child Nov,9,2014 too...what are the punishment are to be given to that man of his wrong doing suite the RA 9262 and other penalties?

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    1. The penalties vary for every violation of the law. ou may leave your email address for a more in-depth assessment.

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    3. good evening sir
      my ex live in partner not giving support for our daughter can i file for R.A 9262 ?? thanks sir

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    4. good evening sir
      my ex live in partner not giving support for our daughter can i file for R.A 9262 ?? thanks sir

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    6. Hi! i filed a case against my husband re RA9262 under physical abuse and i won the decision was 6-1 year imprisonment and 40k for damages and 200k penalty, my husband filed for a probation and he was granted my question is the 40k was given to me as moral damages the 200k will be paid in court what thus it mean?
      Thanks sir...

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    7. sir im ghe 25 married ask ko lng po yung husband k po kasi may unag kinasama may anak sila kinasuhan po sya ng r.a 9262 sec 5 (I)
      nababaan po sya ng warrant of arrest dahil dun ano pa dapat nming gawin

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    8. On going po case ko pwde ako ngprivate message sayo sir tru ur email

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    9. Hello po pwde magtanung makukulong ba ang 20yrs old na lalaki at 17yrsold na babae pagnagsama?

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  2. Hello po, i filed a case against my husband re RA9262 pero di ko po specific ang nailagay ko sa case like psychological abuse. kasi po iniwan nya ako at pinili ang kanyang mistress. Sila po ay nagli live in since umalis po sya ng bahay last July 4, 2014 until now po they live together at ang mistress po nya ay buntis at sya ang ama. pareho po nilan inamin sa akin through private message sa social network na nag li live in na sila at buntis ang kabit. Before ako nag file ng case, kinausap ko po ang asawa ko para ayusin namin pero tinakot pa po nya ako na patayin para walang magdemanda sa kanya. Kaya nag file po ako ng case na RA9262 instead of concubinage kasi di ko po alama ang complete address ng babae na kung saan sila nakatirang dalawa at naka 2 hearings na po sa fiscal pero di po sumipot ang asawa ko, ano po ang punishment nun? Tapos ang ang mistress po ay nagme message po sa akin at hinaharass po ako sinasabing sila na daw ang magsasama ng asawa ko at di daw ako mahal at niloloko lang, minumura, nilalait at tinakot din po nya ako na sasaktan, ano po ang case na pede ko i file sa babae? Saan po ako pede mag request ng hold departure order if in case may balak silang umalis ng bansa? I need your help regarding this case, i am emotionally affected pati na rin po yung health ko apektado, nahihiya na rin po ako makiharap sa nakaalam ng sitwasyon ko. Thank you po.

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    1. Hi, kindly leave your email address so we can discuss your concerns further.

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    2. Hi po same situwasyon po kami ni madam. Ano po pde kaso po sa knila yun nga lng po sinisicreto paten po ng asawa ko. Hindi niya po alm na may idea po ako. Ito po email ko atty. Rox.dimabuyu4@gmail.com

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    3. same scenario po sakin atty. ako po bigla nlang iniwan ng asawa ko as in walang pasabi ok nmn kme.later on nalaman ko reason na sila p din pla ng kabit nya.almost 1month na po kme hiwalay ni walang contact sakin.tapos yung kabit nya nag papalitan sila ng mga pictures ng private area nila as in so grossed! as in makikita mo na may lumalabas sa kanila.then yung babae binubuyo nya yung asawa ko na kumupit sakin at kung anu anu cnasabi sakin.nakita ko po kase mga emails nila at matagal na pla nila ako niloloko.now i want a revenge! 3yrs nila pinag planuhan na in time aalis at iiwan ako ng asawa ko.masakit po kase sakin na gnawa nya un samantalang ok nmn lhat ng pakikisama ko.almost 4yrs kme kasal..sa civil..yung asawa ko muslim sya pero d nmn kme kinasal dun.tsaka d nya nmn sinusunod mga gawa ng islam. as far as i know magkasama na sila sa isang bahay ng mistress nya..aside from abandonment,concubinage,adultery,anu po pwede ko pa i kaso..na trauma na ako ngayun

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    4. esmerldaturlamise@gmail.com

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    5. same then po kami nang situation atty.nak file na din po ako nang case R.A 9262 po isinampa ko po sa kanya..pero ung address niya sa mama ko po niya nilagay kasi nde ko rin po alam kung san siya nakatira ngaun kasi nagtatago na po xa...possible po bang ma dismissed ang case niya kung nde niya sisiputin ang court summon na ipapadala sa kanya?i need ur answer po..thanks here's my email ad: blessunlimitedtours@gmail.com

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    6. Same scenario atty. I really need your advice now since my husband doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Here's my email address jollybethquerol31@yahoo.com
      Thank you sir.

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    7. hi what will i do? my husband is a police, we have two kids. he said he doesn't love me anymore and he is now living with his mistress..he does not want to visit our kids. he is only giving small amount of money for our kids via remittance center using his mistress name every time he is sending money. please advice me. ty

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  3. I'm a daughter. I'm 17, turning 18 this December. My parents use a deprivation of food and education as a punishment. Is that a proper way to discipline me? Plus, they don't permit me to decide for what course I shall choose. I believe that's a violation of my rights as a minor. What should I do? They're my parents so I can't defend my rights.

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  4. Can you please give some advice? I'm 19, turning 20 this November 21. I would like to ask if there is some kind of law that protects me because my account in Facebook and Yahoo was hacked by someone I don't know and my photos were uploaded in a pornography site and he also tagged my Facebook account with the photos. What should I do?

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  5. can you please me some advice. i dont know what to do. i got pregnant by my boyfriend. by the time he knew that i am pregnant, he didnt txt or call me. his family is hiding him from me. i dont receive any support. what should i do? can i file a case against them?

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    1. yes mam u can file a case against him... pasok po yan sa violation of RA 9262

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    2. I'm now 6 months pregnant. I inforemed my boyfriend earlier regarding my situation.He just told me that he's not yet prepared. Then few months had past, i was shocked that he's with his live in partner with their child. By this time I'm emotionally stress of what happens to my life. I'll file a case to him of RA 9262 last Dec. 29.2014. Hopefully it could be helpful for me and for my baby.

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    3. kindly leave your email address for further discussion of your concern.

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    4. We have the same priblem sir, ito po yung email add ko mimarjorieludovico@gmail.com

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    5. preho po kami nang problema sir email ad ko po..blessunlimitedtours@gmail.com nde ko rin po alam kung san na xa naka stay ngaun pero yung court summon niya naka address sa mama niya possible po bang ma dismiss ang kaso niyan sir kung nde niya sisiputin ang case niya?need ur answer po salamat

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    6. same situation here. here is my email add. joycegonzaga000@gmail.com

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    7. Hello po . Nagtanan kami ng girlfriend ko. Nasa tamang edad naman kami.. tapos gusto ako ipakulong nung nanay ni gf kasi ayaw po sakin nung nanay nya pero ang gf ko gustong gusto na sumama sakin.. Pwede po ba yun ?

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  6. Pwde ko ba ireklamo at maipakulong ang karelasyon ko pang nanakit verbal at physical abuse?

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    1. I have to ask about my ex husband who didn't give support and visit my son,,,
      Bernasigridandres@gmail.com

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    2. Jheng10@yahoo.com...need legal advise po

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    3. Hi I'm married with a foreigner and everything goes well with us except nung nagkasakit sya ng alcohol dependence. He is very sick ni ayaw kumain ... Inum lang Ang gusto nya .. Kung ano ano nasasabi nyang masama sakin at gina wa paralang sa Alak... Sabi nya gusto nya bumalik ng bansa nya ayaw nya naraw dito. . wala kami magawa kundi kinausap ko kamaganak nya para mapauwi sya Pero wla din silang PEra.. Humingi nadin ako ng tulong sa kungsaan saan pero wla padin ... Kinasuhan ko sya kahit ayaw ko kasi iyon yung pumasok sa isip ko... Wlang ibang paraan para mapabalik sya sa bansa nya.. At kababatid kodin lamang na akoy nagdadalang tao... Wala kaming kaperapera baun pa sa utang... Ngayon ay mahigit 6 na buwan na at naayos naming magasawa ang problema ... Mag ka sama na kami ulit at nangako sya na di na ulit magiinom. Peri dumating naman young warrant for him... Hindi ko po alam ang gagawin para iatras ang kaso at nataon pa na kabuwanan ko na... Ano po kailangan kong gawin para iatras ang kaso at warrant against him na di magastos .. Kasi po walang wala din kaming pera. At abot abot ang problema ...I need some legal advice ... Please help me

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  7. Sana po may makausap ako regarding sa kaso na gusto ko i file just to get a piece of mind. 09176218463

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  8. I'm now 6 months pregnant. I inforemed my boyfriend earlier regarding my situation.He just told me that he's not yet prepared. Then few months had past, i was shocked that he's with his live in partner with their child. By this time I'm emotionally stress of what happens to my life. I'll file a case to him of RA 9262 last Dec. 29.2014. Hopefully it could be helpful for me and for my baby.

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  9. I'm now 6 months pregnant. I informed my boyfriend earlier regarding my situation.He just told me that he's not yet prepared. Then few months had past, i was shocked that he's with his live in partner with their child. By this time I'm emotionally stress of what happens to my life. I'll file a case to him of RA 9262 last Dec. 29.2014. Hopefully it could be helpful for me and for my baby.

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  10. Good evening po! Nagfile po ako ng reklamo sa POEA last Sept. 17, 2014 laban sa husband ko sa pag declare nya na single sya sa POEA. Nakakuha po kasi ako ng kopya sa Records Division ng POEA na single ang nilagay nya. Nagkaroon po kami ng hearing at sa documents na pinakita nya ay naka declare naman na married sya. Sa parehong records division namin kinuha yun,

    Sa huling hearing ay nagbigay kami ng anak kong 19 years old ng Memorandum of Agreement tungkol sa demands namin particularly tungkol sa financial support na 50% ng net income nya sa Saudi, Php200,000 bilang singil or retroactive amount sa mga kulang na pinadala nya since nasa abroad sya hanggang Dec 2014 at share sa pinagbentahan nya sa van namin. Nun Dec 2014 ay hindi na po sya nagpadala ng sustento nun malaman nya tungkol sa reklamo ko sa POEA laban sa kanya.

    Feb 2012 pa pala sya nasa Saudi at sumasahod sya ng SR7000/monthly (roughly Php80,000 a month). Pero September 2012 lang sya nagbigay ng monthly support na Php5000. July 2013 ginawa nyang Php7000 monthly. Itinago ng mother nya at ate nya na nasa abroad sya. Hiwalay na po kami dahil may kabit sya at nagkaanak na sila ng kabit nya ng 2 lalaki. Hindi rin nya nilagay ung anak namin sa POEA beneficiary nya samantalang nun 2012 na umalis sya ay 17 years old lang ang anak namin. Nilagay lang nyang beneficiary ay ung 2 illigitimate children nya at ung nanay nya.

    Pinagsubmit sya sa POEA ng notarized reply sa reklamo ko at sagot sa Memorandum of Agreement. Nagpadala sya sa bahay namin ng sagot nya sa POEA at sa Memorandum of Agreement sa pamamagitan ng abogado nya. Ang ibibigay lang daw nya ay 50% net income nya sa Saudi na Php25,000 monthly. Hindi daw nya ibibigay ung hinihingi naming Php200,000 na kakulangan or retroactive amount na hinihingi namin at hindi din dw sya magbibigay ng kalahati sa pinagbentahan sa van namin dahil nagamit na dw nya ung perang pinagbentahan nun sa placement fee nya. Naibenta nya ang sasakyan namin ng wala akong pirma bilang kanyang spouse/wife eh di po ba conjugal property un?

    Pakipayuhan nyo naman po kami kung ano ang mga karapatan naming nalabag sa ilalim ng RA 9262 at kung ano po ang dapat namin isampang kaso laban sa mister ko. Meron po kaya kayo pwede irekomendang abogado na tumatanggap ng sinasabi nilang Pro Bono?

    Maraming salamat po at pagpalain nawa tayo ng Poong Maykapal!

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    1. Ako po ay nananahi lang ng apron bilang hanapbuhay.

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    4. Sir,I need your help.my email add is sales@watercorptech.com.it regards with my live in partner.Thanks Sir.

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    5. Hi sir! I really really need your help! This is my email add graceromulo94@yahoo.com. Your answer is very much anticipated. Thankyou.

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    6. hi atty, may itatanong lang. yung kaibigan namin(boy) nabuntis yung ex gf nya, after they broke up, tas sinasabi ni girl na sknya daw yun. pero ayaw akuhin ng frend nmin ksi during their relationship may ibang nkakasama si girl and one time may nakita siyang kiss mark nya sa leeg(which is inamin din nung babae)ngayun naguusap sila na ipapaDNA yung bata at willing din magbgay ng financial support ang pamilya ng frend nmin bagay na tinanggihan ng kampo ni girl, and now, nagfile sya ng case against our frend RA9262(sec.7i). anu pong pwede naming maitulong sa frend nmin?

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  12. Hi. I'd like to file a case of RA9262 against my Ex-bf. Im almost 8 months pregnant now. He had threatened me, destroyed my tablet, kicked my electric fan, and threatening to deny financial support. He kept on saying to support the child to other people though. We had an affidavit signed in PAO but he's not honoring it. In the affidavit, his atm is with me to make sure I get the 50% of his net salary for financial support after our child is born. Right now, we're sharing 50-50 or half of the expenses for the prenatal. I'm doubtful they will pay half for the delivery and he's making his owns to try to get his atm back. Another affidavit he signed is the acknowledgement of his debt that I will get his payment per cut off and the half of the expenses. This is getting me stress and I'm also having episodes of bleeding.

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  13. hello po. mga ilan taon po ba mkukulong

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  14. E2 po ang rmail add q..mareviceupena@yahoo.com ..09057009241

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  15. Sir advise nmn po..nambabae ang husband ko naaktuhan q cla n.mgksma s isa nmeng sasakyan..pd qna b xa maedimanda??

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  16. hi po sir, sa apr.01 na po ang court hearing ko laban sa husband ko..pero may iba pa pong reason na hinde ko sinabi sa imbestigador, kasi by that moment na gumawa na ako ng hakbang laban sa kanya, may little space pa rin ang nagsasabi and hoping na hihingi sya ng tawad at magrereconcile. but then, it has been years wala pa rin..that is why last jan.09 pumunta na ako sa court to check the schedule at yun nga sa apr.01 na at 8:30am. pwede ko pa po bang ipahabol ang ibang reklamo ko? to gain justice and peace for my two kids, specially the one who died? hinde na 'ko naawa sa kanya after all ng malaman ko na naka dalawang anak na pala sila ng kabit nya.

    and,pwede po ba ako magfile ng adulery and bigamy kahit pangalan at address lang babae ang meron ako?

    thank you so much in advance :)

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    1. Hello po, ask ko lang po, Matagal na po akong iniwan ng asawa ko (since 2012?)... Muslim way po ang kasal namin dito sa Phil.. Muslim po sy.... Matagal na sana kaming divorce kaya lang inatake sy sa puso during the time na pinag uusapan namin ang divorce namin at nakiusap na mag-antay raw ako sa pagdidivorce namin... May mga buwan na d sy nagsusustento sa akin... Paghumingi naman ako pinagkakasya ko nalang kung magkano man ung ibigay ny para lang ipaintindi sana sa kanya na wala na n akong galit sa kanya sa lahat ng sakit na ibinigay ny sa akin at gusto ko nalang magdivorce kami ng maayos.... Nagkita kami once (Dec 2017) dahil nagpatakbo ako sa hospital due to chest pain sa sobrang lungkot narin siguro... pagkahatid ny s akin s bahay from that time d nanamn kami nagkita... GUSTO KO NA PO MAGDIVORCE KAMI SINCE WALA NAMAN NA SYANG BALAK BUMALIK AT PARANG MASAYA NA SY S BAGO NYANG ASAWA NOW... ASAN PO B AKO HINGI NG TULONG PARA MAKAUWI NA RIN AKO SA FAMILY KO AT MAKAPAG UMPISA NAMAN NG MAAYOS..???

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    2. Hello po, ask ko lang po, Matagal na po akong iniwan ng asawa ko (since 2012?)... Muslim way po ang kasal namin dito sa Phil.. Muslim po sy.... Matagal na sana kaming divorce kaya lang inatake sy sa puso during the time na pinag uusapan namin ang divorce namin at nakiusap na mag-antay raw ako sa pagdidivorce namin... May mga buwan na d sy nagsusustento sa akin... Paghumingi naman ako pinagkakasya ko nalang kung magkano man ung ibigay ny para lang ipaintindi sana sa kanya na wala na n akong galit sa kanya sa lahat ng sakit na ibinigay ny sa akin at gusto ko nalang magdivorce kami ng maayos.... Nagkita kami once (Dec 2017) dahil nagpatakbo ako sa hospital due to chest pain sa sobrang lungkot narin siguro... pagkahatid ny s akin s bahay from that time d nanamn kami nagkita... GUSTO KO NA PO MAGDIVORCE KAMI SINCE WALA NAMAN NA SYANG BALAK BUMALIK AT PARANG MASAYA NA SY S BAGO NYANG ASAWA NOW... ASAN PO B AKO HINGI NG TULONG PARA MAKAUWI NA RIN AKO SA FAMILY KO AT MAKAPAG UMPISA NAMAN NG MAAYOS..???

      dorinda031376@yahoo.com

      Salamat po..

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  17. im a daughter 26 years old, turning 27 this 14th of August 2015 mg3 years na po simula ng iabandon ako at ang mother ko ng papa ko who is a seaman, yung dalawang kapatid ko po na lalaki lng ang kanyang sinusuportahan.yung dalawa po kasi nasa Cagayan kami ni mama eh nakikitira sa pinsan ko yung bahay namin sa bulacan ay pinauupahan nlng namin dahil walang natatanggap na allotment si mama. may natatanggap naman po ako na 3thousand a month para sa gamot ko, kasi po i was diagnosed of Epilepsy when i was 17.dahil rin po sa pagaabandon nya hindi ko po natapos ang pagaaral ko 3rd year po ako sa Pharmacy ng huminto, ngaun po eh pinag-aaral ng mga kapatid ni mama pero BS Education po ang kinuha ko kc hindi nga rin po nila kaya ang tuition ng Pharmacy.and as of the moment po na nagttype ako eh wala po ako sa bahay...naglayas po ako....searching wala naman po kaming pinagtalunan ng mother ko may something lang po sa akin na ang sinasabi ng isip eh hanapin ko muna sarili ko, may mga bagay din po kasi na nagawa ako na hindi maganda...ang iniisip ko rin po eh baka resulta na ito ng pgrerebelde ko dahil nga pinabayaan ako ng tatay ko sa 3 pagkakataon na.sa edad ko po ba na mag27 eh may mahahabol pa ako na sustento sa tatay ko? Sir I really need help. Salamat po

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  18. Im a fiancee of a navy which has a daughter on the girl which he living in, he acknowledged the child, they are not married. the girl got an affair with the other guy and got pregnant, that was the cause of their paghiwalay.My fiancee support is through tuition alone, ayaw na niyang magsuport ng cash since alam niyang di naman mapakinabanagn ng bata since may kapatid na siya.We enrolled the child in public school and we are paying for her tuition but the custody is nasa nanay niya. Dumating ang point na hindi na nila kaya ang daily expenses ng bata.So the opening of school nasa amin siya, im the one who prepared for all her needs, ang usapan pagweekend sa kanila ang bata. Maldita ang bata at tinuturuan nila kung ano ano mga sasabihin sakin which is nasasaktan din ako. after that time umuwi yong bata sa kanila at ayaw bumalik samin kasi daw pinapagalitan ko siya, di naman pwedeng hayyan ko siya na pagsalitaan ako ng di maganda. After that a month bumalik ang bata naghingi ng pera kasi may sayaw daw na sasalihan.Binigyan namin un ng pambayad, after a week again bumalik kasi may babayaran ulit at sa every week na lang may babayaran,The time bumalik siya I texted her mother na meron palang babayaran ang bata bakit di agad sila nasabi para mapaghandaan ang pera. Maliit lang sahod ng Fiancee ko gawa ng loans na pianakinabangn din naman ng nanay ng anak nila. Gusto niya kasi pagpumunta ang bata may ibibigay kami at inutusan pa niya ang bata na kunin ung no.ko para itext ako. Until such time, nilipat nila ang bata sa public school na hindi pinaalam samin, ngayon hindi nila makuha ang card sa private school since may balance pa kami, nagalit po yong fiancee ko kasi di nila pinaalam sa amin. A common friend in Fb ang nag.inform samin na babayaran anmin yong balance, we dont have enough financial that time but we dont have any intention para bayaran yon, it just happen wala kaming pera, nagloan pa kami that time para mabayaran yon.Binayaran po namin yong balance mar 7 2015,ang nanay ng bata nagreklamo sa Provost para sa Fiancee ko, pwede po ba siya madischarge dahil sa non support? Need ko po advise niyo..Thanks and more power!

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  20. Tanong ko lang po pwede po ba ako magfile ng kaso sa bf ko kahit hndi kami kasal? Nagbubuntis palang ako Marami na po sya gnawa sakin niloko nya ako at nambabae sya hnd lang isa, dalawa madami pa. Nasa japan sya ngayon nagwork at umalis sya ng walang pasabi sakin bigla nalang niya kami iniwan ng baby ko. Nangako pa sya noon sa pamilya ko na pakakasalan niya ako pero niloko lang niya kmi ng pamilya ko. Kinukunsinti pa ng pamilya niya ang pambabae nya at lahat ng babae niya dinadala niya sa bahay nila. nagmalaki pa sakin kapatid niya na child support lang daw kaya ioffer sakin pero hanggang ngayon kahit piso wala ako natanggap skanya. Kahit sana tulong sa bayarin sa ospital nung nanganak ako dahil cs ako at nagstay pa ng 1week sa nicu ang baby kaya sobra laki ng bill namin pero wala talaga sya tinulong sakin. Minsan nadin nia dineny ang anak niya na hindi daw sya ang tatay at ako ang pinagbibintangan niyang may lalake ako. Nagbubuntis palang ako mintik nako marape sa lugar nila nung nagpunta ako dun tintawagan at text ko sya para tulungan ako dahil may 3 tambay ang humahabol sakin pero dinya sinasagot lahat ng tawag ko at nagreply lang sya na bahala ako sa buhay ko. Di manlang sya naawa sakin o kahit sa batang dinadala ko kung mapahamak man ako. Ang sakit ng pinagdaanan ko skanya nastress ako habang nagbubuntis ako. Di sya nagsustento sa bata. Gusto ko po syang maparusahan. Gusto ko sana sya mapadeport pagnakasuhan sya. Tanong ko lang po kung pwede ko sya makasuhan kahit hindi kami kasal at magkano po ba magfile ng kaso? Pls reply po salamat po..

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  21. Ang anak ko po ay anak ng hapon nakapirma po siya sa birth certificate ng anak ko.sinupportahan nya po eto ng 10 yrs. nung 2013 ay nagpakasal na po siya sa isay pinay at itinigil nya na po ang sustento sa bata.tanong ko lang po kong pwede po akong magdemand ng sustento gayong nasa japan po siya at wala na po kaming kontak.pwede ko ba siyang kasuhan para sa sustento ng bata kahit nsa japan po siya?pls.reply po maraming salamat..

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  22. pwede po ba humingi ng legal advise, kasi po yung asawa ko hindi po nya finile yung anak namin as beneficiries nya, kasi po ang status po nya sa trabaho nya ay single xa, 4yrs na po kami hiwalay pareho na po kami my pamilyang iba at anak. for the past 4yrs po hindi po ako humingi ng kahit anu sustento saknya, ngaun ko po hinahabol ito dahil nagkapoblema po ang anak namin diagnose po xa having a adhd, medyo malakilaki po ang magagastos at nangangailngan po ng therapy ang anak ko at medication kaya po gusto ko sana hati kami sa lhat ng gastusin sa bata, magbibigay naman daw po xa kaya lang po ayaw nya po ideclare ang anak namin n benificiries nya samantalng kasal po kami at kami po ang legal na pamilya, sabi po kasi nya di daw po alam ng pamilya ng babae na kasal sya sa iba at may anak din. pero lam po ng asawa nya ngaun na kasal namn sya at may ank din kaya nga po kami naghiwalay dahil sa babae n yun. pano po ba at anu po ba dapat kong gawin

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  23. Good day po!! tanong lang po, what if po yung lalaki nasaktan nya ang asawa nya once dahil may nagprovoke po sa kanya dahil nakita nya asawa nya hinatid sa bahay ng ibang lalaki. at nang minsang magpaalam ung babae na aalis sinabi nya dun sa friend nya pero wla sya dun nung susunduin ng asawa nya kaya nagalit po ito ng todo kaya nya po ito nasaktan. pero before po yan yung lalaki laging sinasaktan nung babae at pinahihiya sa harap ng mga kaibigan nya. ngayon nag file ng case ung babae against sa lalaki. makukulong po ba ang lalaki kapag po ganun?. thanx!

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  24. Good pm!
    Hihingi po sana ako ng legal advice. Meron po ako bf for almost 9yrs at live-in kami. 3months n ang nkalipas ngkaroon ng affair ang bf ko sa lugar kung saan siya nadestino. Nkipghwalay sakin si bf dhil daw nbuntis ung nka-affair nya. I am emotionally and psychologically affected. Ano po pwede kong gawin o ikaso?

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  25. Good day Atty,

    I need your advice please. The father of my son who is now 13 years old never supported him since the day he was born. We are not married. Right now, I asked for his support since I am now having a hard time since my son is studying in a private school. The father has so many excuses saying he's not earning and he's in school that he is being supported by his mother. I have given him so mucb time, 13 years to be exact and he's even daring me to sue him. What are my chances Atty? I really wanted to file a case against him but what's stopping me is the finances involved. I am a single mom and already financially not capable that's why I am asking his help. I appreciate any feedback you can give. please email me cicicorrales@yahoo.com.
    Thank you and more power!

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  26. Hello po atty..........hingi lang po ako po advise, nalilito na kac ako kakaisip, this mos. Kac me nabasa ako sa cp ng asawa ko, babae po na me asawa, at minsan lang daw cla ngkita, kung ganun man, bat kelanagan itago nga asawa ko sa akin, bakit po kailangan palitan nya ang password nya sa facebook nya sa viber po cla ng uusap, nung tinanong ko ung asawa ko, ang sabi nya masyado daw kac ako selosa kaya binubura nya usapan nila? E bat ung babaeng un lang ang binubura nya? Sana lahat ng kausap nya na babae.? Kinausap ko xa na iharap ung babae sa akin, d nya ginawa.ang ginawa nya, naglasing at cnabi na ako din lang me kasalanan kung bakit dahil d daw ako marunong magtipid, dko daw alam tipidin mga anak ko.andun kang minura mura pa ako.yokong yoko na lang ako sa mga taong nasa paligid ko, dko mapagtanggol ang sarili ko sa hiya...pabalik balik lang po sa isipan ko ung ngyari, at kung anu ang nililihim mya? Maniniwala po ba ako na wala clang relasyon? Inamin po nya nakikipag flirt daw po xa? Hanggang dun lang po kaya talaga un? Me tym po na sumasakit ulo ko kaiisip. Na dahil sa babaeng un muramurahin lang ako ng asawa ko...panu ko kaya mahuhuli ang asawa ko? O sa tingin nu po, totoo po kayang wala clang relasyon? Sabi nya iiwanan ko ba kau ng mga anak ko, hindi.pero kung maka pamura xa pati kga anak nye pwee sabi nga nya e...panu po ba makokopirma kung ang lalaki e nambabae na talaga? Mag isang nuwan na pong paiba iba ang mood ko lalo na po kung naalala ko mga ngyari...pa advise nman po....thank u.

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    1. Good morning po atty. Gusto ko lng sana po humingi ng advice. Un panganay ko po na anak na lalaki ay may live in partner for eight years at nagkaroon po sila ng 2 anak. Last june 2019 ay nakaalis ng bansa un babae at naiwan po sa anak ko na lalaki un 1.year old nyang anak at nasa poder ko po sila ngaun habang un 7years old nilang anak ay nsa magulang ng babae sa bohol.pero last week bgla namin nalaman na nakikipaghiwalay na un babae sa anak ko dahil nagkabalikan cla ng dati nyang bf na single naman at nandito po sa pilipinas. Ano po ang karapatan ng anak ko? May batas po ba sa ganyan kaso? Un bata po na nsa amin pwede po ba namin ilaban yun na hindi makuha sa anak ko. Muntik na po mgpakamatay anak ko 2 days ago... At pakiramdam ko anytym pwede nya ulitin.. Tulungan nyo po ako.

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  27. I have a bf weve been together for 8 months.. Lagi nia sinasabi gusto na nia mgkababy at pnanagutan nman daw nia, kahit simpleng kasal lang daw.. At ako nman d pa ready wla pa nman kme ipon, same kami work sa callcenter. We live on separate apartment. Then nabuntis nia ko sinabi ko sa kanya then di na sya ngparamdam simula nun.. Naglaho nlang prang bula. Tinatanong ko sa mga kaibigan nia di din nila alam if san na sya, minsan nkikita ko sya ksama mga friends nia kumakain sa labas, happy go lucky di ko mlapitan ayokong mpahiya.. Im 9 months pregnant at nagtatrabaho parin ako, wla man lang sya khit financial support khit wag na ko pkasalan basta sa baby lang sna.. Wla gano naipon dahil breadwinner ako sa family ko at nag aaral ng college kpatid ko.. Di covered ng company maternity benefits. Ako lhat gastos ng check up, lab test, vitamins.. Ni singko wla sya binigay.. Need advice..

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  28. good day po gusto ko po sana hingi ng payo..my dati akong ka live in at nakaanak kami ..nanganak ako nov 2 2013...ikinasakal cya january 2014 nalaman ko septmber 5 2014...n kinasal cya s iba ..dinemanda ko cya ng ra 9262 economic abuse..covered din ba un ng psychological abuse.....kaso ang lumabas po s kaso economic abuse....my nakukulong din po b s economic abuse....kung i dederectso po ako s kaso..my posibilidad po b n makukulong ang lalaki ..at pag my kaso po b ang isang security guard makakakuha parin siya ng licencia nya..email ko po mai_bagalay@yahoo.com..thanks po

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  29. may nakukulong po b sa ra 9262 ecomonic abuse

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  30. Good Day Atty.. Sana po mapayuhan nyo ako kung ano ang nararapat kong gawin tungkol sa dati kong asawa na nagkaroon ng ka live in sa mismong tinitirahan namin noon at bukod sa ginawa nya, alam lahat ito ng kanyang mga magulang at kapatid. Wala din xang suporta mula ng kami ay lumisan sa aming bahay noong 2007, ang rason kung bakit kami umalis dahil madalas na nya akong saktan, tanggap ko na po sana na ako ang magtrabaho para mabuo at maiayos ko lang ang pamilya ko ang problema bukod sa wala xang trabaho , nagaadik at nanakit pa xa, minsan na po xang nakulong dahil po nanghipo din xa sa aming kapitbahay. Lahat po tiniis ko para lang sa mga anak namin kaso umabuso po xa, sa ngayon po ako ay OFW since 2008 at suportado ko ng aking mga anak na nasa piling ng aking ina, napatunayan ko din po na talagang nagsasama sila ng babae nya at may anak na sila. Sna po maadvisan nyo ako eto po email address ko>dangnazmi@gmail.com.

    maraming salamat po and more power! God Bless

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  31. Good day Atty. I'm married for 15yrs but no children. Last June after I decided not to file a housing loan my husband got very angry & didn't come home regularly. By July he left the housevwithout saying anything. He stop giving me financial support. He said he is happy with his 27yrs old gf. He txted me all his sweet text to his gf. I'm suffering from depression right now. What can I do?

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  32. Good day Atty. I was impragnated by PAF officer and promised to marry me but later on i found out that his already married with his co worker, my son is 7 years old now and failed him to give his emotional and financial support. Under po b ng ra 9262 and hindi pagbibigay ng emotional and financial support.

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  33. Anonymous
    tatlo po ung mga anak ko, 12 yo ang panganay, babae at 8yo po ung mga kambal. lahat po sila nakatira sa mga biyanan ko dahil nagtatrabho po kaming mag-asawa. mula po ng ipanganak ang mga batang ito ay lumaki at nagkaisip na sila na sa tabi ng kanilang tihaying dalaga na ngyon ay titser na. hindi pa titser ang tiyahin nila ay magkakapalagayang loob na sila ng mga anak ko kasi nga siya ang nag-alaga sa kanila mula pagkabata hanggang ngayon.Biglang bigla na lang napansin ng lahat lalo na kaming mga magulang na may malaking mga pagbabago sa relasyon sa pagitan ng mga bata at ng hipag kong titser (mommy kung tawgin ng mga anak ko).Ang isa sa mga kambal ay tatlong beses nakaranas ng rejections mula sa kanilang mommy, ang panganay na babae naman ay napakadaling sigawan at pagsalitaan ng hindi magagndang mga salita kahit na nakaharap ako o kaya naman ay naririnig ko. Nangyayari po itong madalas, nagtitimpi lang po ako. Ang mga kambal ay najkaranas na ring pagsalitaan ng kanilang mommy ng mga salitang ito habamg kumakain, "magbalot na kayo ng mga babaunin nyo (sa eskwela) hindi na ako bibili ng bigs. napakalalakas nyo'ng kumain, hindi naman marunong bumili ng bigas. Pabilin nyo pa ng bigas ang mama nyo". pra sa mga bat, ito po ay nag dulot ng malaking epekto. Hindi na po sila mg close sa isa't-isa, naaalangan na pong lumapit ang mga bata sa kanilang mommy na dati ay hindi naman. Ang panganay ko pong magdadalaga na rin ay nagkaroon na po ng takot sa kanyang mommy.Itinutulak ko ang anak kong babae patungo sa kanayang mommy, mga simpleng pagpapaload ng celpon na kayang kaya ko namang gawin ay iniuutos ko pa sa anak ko, "punta ka ng sa mommy mo, paloadan mo ako ng 50 sa globe". ayaw ng bata, kasi natatakot daw po siya. Tatanungin ko siya, "eh bakit ka matatakot, noong una close nman kayo di ba", mapipilitan na lang siya sumunod sa utos ko.yHnggang puro bulyaw na lang ang inaabot niya kung inuutusan ko ang bata o itinutulak palapit sa kanilang mommu. naawa na rin po ako sa anak ko kung madalas ko itng ginagawa sa kanya, pasra na rin pong ako ang nagpapahirap sa kalooban ny nya kay itinigil ko na lang po. QUALIFIED PO BANG LAHAT ANG MGA PANGYAYARING ITO PAR MASAMPAHAN NG VAWC ANG AKING HIPAG NA TITSER? Salamat po.

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  34. question po, I am married with 3 kids and 10 yrs. na po kami nung husband ko po..now, recently he admitted he was having an affair 5 yrs ago, because that is his way on getting back at me..he was angered when he found out I had borrowd and iindebted money with my friends for reasons that I fall short out of budget. he forgives me but he just kept it all my mistakes..last year he admitted he was into a relationship with a girl but it only lasted for 3 dAYS, AND that's it. and our relationship is not at all okay..and now, he wanted us to go on separate ways, because he dousnt wnat me na and hindi na daw mag work ung relationship namin as husband and wife. because we argue on things since nung he admitted na he had an affair...now syempre im not and would not us to separate because we have 3 kids..but he said his decision his final and would not listen and consider my opinion.. his reason is its for the kids..and for them to not notice he will just come and visit..which is not good..so i gave him my conditions..if he wanted us to separate then I will agree on that BUT, I will leave the house and take my kids with me..and just wait for the legal papers..and he does not wnt it..and would not listen to me..What would I do, for me to assure and maybe would set his mind to listen to me..and what should i file against my husband if in case he will fore go with his decision on the separation.?

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  35. Good day po Atty.

    question po... yung asawa ko pong babae ay inaway at pinagpapalo ng kahoy sa ulo ng kapatid nyang lalaki....... sinakal at pinagmumura pa po.... pasok po ba sa RA9262? meron po kaming medico legal at nag blotter po kami sa baranggay...... gusto po namin idemenda yung bayaw ko.... ano po ang parusa at kung makukukulong ilan taon po ?

    JCC

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  36. My case is slightly different.
    I'm married. I caught my wife having an affair with her sister's son by reading the text messages on her phone. Upon closer inspection of her texts, I discovered LOTS of men that she's involved with sexually.
    I confronted her and she left me.
    We have one daughter (2yrs) and she took our daughter with her. I then filed a barangay blotter. As my mother in law was living with me, I stayed home and continued supporting my wife's family as a whole while they promised that my wife would come to her senses and apologize, but that never happened. After a year of supporting them, I learned that they were not helping my family to heal, but were just using me for income. So, I transferred and told them to find new support.
    I filed adultery and child custody cases against my wife as I want my daughter returned to the family home to be raised and cared for properly. Those cases are ongoing. My wife retaliated by filing 9262 against me.
    Am I protected by Art. 100 and Art. 204 as she is the one who abandoned me and I'm faithfully maintaining the family home?
    I appreciate your reply. Thank you.

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  37. Can I ask po.? Can a family file case on their father who were physically abusing them ?? And what if some people will stand and tell something opposite on the abuse ??

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  38. Good evening atty, would like to seek your advice with regards to my cousin. denidemanda daw sya ng ex gf nya for RA 9262 dahil na upload ang pix & video nila sa FB. what is the posible things to do since the girl is the one taking the pictures & also the video with him. kainis db sya na nga ang kumuha ng video at pictures nilang dalawa sa lampungan nila tapos pag naupload sa social media sila ang nagagalit. bakit kasi nya kinunan ang sarili nila? gusto naming sagutin ng kontra demanda ang case na un.what would the possible things to do?

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  39. good evening sir..i am psychlogically and emotionally abused and for a while physicaly abused by my husband..we are married for 9 yrs. since then wlang work ang asawa ko.we have 3 child. 7, 6 and 4. ako lahat nagprovide, since then also, hes been addicted to alak, and drugs but for a yea now, sobra ang addiction to the point that all of the things that i bought like bike, speakers, celphones laptopts and so many more ay nabenta na nya. i dont have ay idea on what to do first. thanks. i need ur advise asap beacuse i am so afraid now.

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  40. Hello atty.
    Gusto ko sanang magpa advice. I have a boyfriend and live in partner of 3 years and now im pregnant with our third baby. In the course of our relationship, there were a few physical abuses. He broke my arm once and i had to go into surgery. There were also incidents where he choked me in public till i almost fainted. He left for the US for a work related activity, but he never came back. Word has reached me that he is getting married to a filipino american citizen. What case should i file?

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  41. Hi po mang hihingi po sana ako ng advice about sa x gf ko d kami kasal pero meron kaming anak.nananakot sya lagi na mag fifile sya ng demanda. Nag dedemand sya ng sustento sa halagang gusto nya. At lagi nyan binabaliktad na di daw ako nag bibigay. At nag post sa sa social media na picture ko at ng gf ko ngyun na may post na hindi maganda at mga comment na nakakademoralize. May anak napo syang iba at hiwalay. Ako naman buntis gf ko at mag papakasal kame ano po ba ang gagawin ko thanks.

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  42. Good day po..
    Pls advice me regarding VAWC.. im planning to file against the father of my child.. he stop supporting my child..but im weak afraid and financially insufficient.. because the father of my child have lot's of businesses at kilala na makakatulong sa kanya.. what if I file this at matalo ako dahil sya ay madaming kilala para tumulong sa kanya.. daanin nya sa pera.. I don't know what to do.. Pls email some advice pls.. what should I do.. thank you..

    Best regards,
    sweet_asuncion08@yahoo.com

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  43. HI good day po ng file po ako ng case s ex bf ko...pshycological abuse under ra 9262 pero sa resolution ang lumabas is economic abuse....eh ayaw ko po sana ng sustento ang pinaglalaban ko ay ang ginawa niyang pagtalikod s anak ko at pang loloko nya sa akin...ngaun nasa pre trial n kami..pinayuan ako n pabayad nlng ng and montly allowance...my laban b ako kung itutuloy ko ang kaso...d rin nmn siya ng bibigay sustento ngpapadala lng siya ngaun kasi ng hihiring na..anu po b dapat ko gawin...ituloy o pabayad nlng...my laban b kami s ra 9262 ng anak ko..
    mai_bagalay@yahoo.com my email add

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  44. hi. ano po ang pwedeng maging parusa pag nakasakit ka ng bata? utadpogs@gmail.com

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  45. I want to file a case RA 9262 sa husband ko na matagal ng nambabae. Pwede ko rin kaya kasuha yung kabit. At ano pong kaso kaya. - gladysarenas8@gmail.com

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  46. Hi Sir. Please help me. nahuli ko po ang live-in partner ko na may ibang babae thru text at inamin naman po nya sakin after nun. May anak po kme. Ang sabi nya di raw nya kayang iwan ung girl so sabi ko aalis na lang kme. Ang epekto po sakin is sobrang emotional stress. Di makatulog, di makakain ng maayos, sumasakit or nanlalambot ang katawan, mainitin ang ulo at hindi ko na maalagaan ng maayos ang mga anak ko dahil sa nangyari. Almost everyday po, umiyak ako at isip ng isip na parang mababaliw nako. Ano po ba pwede kong gawin? My email add is orangequiestas.oq@gmail.com/ belovedstranger@yahoo.com

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  47. hi sir, please help me, nakaroon po ako ng anak pero po inilagay ko sa birth certificate ng anak ko is unknown yung father yun po yung pinalagay nang father nang baby ko pwede po ba ako magfile nang R.A. 9262 kahit unknown yung nakalagay na father po sa birth certificate?

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  48. pwede ko po ba mapahold un asawa ko para hindi na makabalik sa ibang bansa?

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  49. good day po!!..
    kasal po kami ng asawa ko nagkahiwalay lang dahil hindi ko na talaga makayanan ang ugali niya mula nung February of 2015.. pinalayas ko siya after nyang duruin ang anak ko at sabihan na " anak ko ba talaga ito?" nung time na nag away kaming mag asawa.. 3 years old pa lng anak ko nun kaya cguro ndi nya pa maintindihan ang sinabi sa kanya ng asawa ko..
    nung december 22, 2015 , nag file po ako ng affidavit of complaint pinareceived ko po sa owwa kasi po October 2015 pa pala nakasakay sya ulit ng barko.. since may of 2015 pa kasi hindi na po sya nagpapadala ng sustento para sa anak ko until nung november 2015 lang sya nagkapagpadala ulit ng money para sa anak ko worth 3000Php.. kulang na kulang po un.. yes , alam ng husband ko na may work ako pero ndi po sapat ang sinasahod ko para sa amin ng anak ko.. after 1 month pa kasi sabi ng OWWA ko pwedeng ifollow up ung complain ko dun..

    may magawa po ba ako na mapilit ang husband ko na madagdagan ung sustento nya para sa anak ko?..

    thank you po.

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  50. Good day po Atty.
    I am married with a 3month old baby. I just want to consult about my husband's
    situation. He has a 3yr old son with his former partner. Before, we were sending goods and stuffs for his son but we're not able to secure records of what my hysband had provided. The other woman had taken pictures of some of the goods and she even created a public post saying "eto lang ang kayang ibigay ng daddy niya" and some more words that actually degrade my husband. public. If in case na maghaharap sila.. can he file a case,too? Thank you for allowing us to post here. I am hoping for your reply..

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  51. Good day po Atty.
    I am married with a 3month old baby. I just want to consult about my husband's
    situation. He has a 3yr old son with his former partner. Before, we were sending goods and stuffs for his son but we're not able to secure records of what my hysband had provided. The other woman had taken pictures of some of the goods and she even created a public post saying "eto lang ang kayang ibigay ng daddy niya" and some more words that actually degrade my husband. public. If in case na maghaharap sila.. can he file a case,too? Thank you for allowing us to post here. I am hoping for your reply..

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  52. Good day. I am married to a man, with a case of RA 9262, for economic abuse with his previous relationship, he has a son with her.
    The case was filed last 2011, and was issued with warrant of arrest, after a year. Now 2016 he posted a bail, and was scheduled for arraignment.
    from 2011 until now he was giving them support. he just failed to give support, for about 3 months because of loss of job. what could be the possible outcome of the case?

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  53. Hello po Good day! i really need your advice po. nagfile ako ng permanent protection order under vawc laban s husband ko pero dlawang hearing n po ang posponed dahil hnd nkkattend ung atty nya, pero nagfile rn po ako ng criminal case kc sabi ng judge icriminal case ko nlng daw. ngayon po dumating n visa ko kc po ofw ako, pero sbi po s fiscal tuloy ko prn po mgabroad then uwi nlng ako pg need ko n magtestify. kailngan ko prn bng iwan s tatay ang bata kng aalis ako, 6yrs old plng po sya nttkot po ung anak ko sknya at gngmit dn nya itong pangharrass skin ayaw ko pong iwan ung anak ko sa tatay nya, and isa pong reason on going ung criminal case nya. pwede po ba na kumuha nlng ako ng special power of attorney at memorandum of agreement n sa mama ko iiwan ung anak ko? im hoping for your reply thanks!

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  54. Anonymous
    Hi po 22years n po km8 kasal may apat n anak 21,20,15 at 14 nasa abroad po siya nagkaroon ngbkabit pinauwi ko oo siya at hngutang ng pmasahe niya para d masira pmilya nmin pero bumalik ulit at nngako n magbabago n oero pagbalik niya mas lumala p at d nkipagusap p sinuman sa amin nagpapadala nman po tuwing ikatlo o ikalawang buwan kahit konti lng. Ako po ang nagppaaral sa aming 4 n anak. Block niya kmi sa fb pati mga bata . May npkagsabi po ng number niya at ng tawagan ng anak ko oarang noipilitan p siya magpdala anu po b dapat ko gawin?

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  55. Anonymous
    Hi po 22years n po km8 kasal may apat n anak 21,20,15 at 14 nasa abroad po siya nagkaroon ngbkabit pinauwi ko oo siya at hngutang ng pmasahe niya para d masira pmilya nmin pero bumalik ulit at nngako n magbabago n oero pagbalik niya mas lumala p at d nkipagusap p sinuman sa amin nagpapadala nman po tuwing ikatlo o ikalawang buwan kahit konti lng. Ako po ang nagppaaral sa aming 4 n anak. Block niya kmi sa fb pati mga bata . May npkagsabi po ng number niya at ng tawagan ng anak ko oarang noipilitan p siya magpdala anu po b dapat ko gawin?

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  56. hi,

    i am a mother of 3 and recently discovered that my husband for 20 years have another woman. prior to this, he is the kind of husband who is controlling and verbal abuser to me and to my children. now that we have discovered his infidelity through circumstances, even my children is a witness of it, i want to take legal actions. do i have grounds for this? as of now, we live separately since he has a business to ran outside the city and i am with my kids. i already told him and his side of the family that my decision is final and that is i am ending our relationship. he continues to abuse us verbally making himself the victim and accusing us of making up stories. this is affecting me and my children psychologically. please help

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  57. Hello po. I am 36 years old having 1 child and recently hiniwalayan po ako ng husband ko for a reason na hindi n daw nya po ako mahal.But the true reason po is may kabit sha sa qatar at dahil po jobless ako at puro sha nlng daw ang gumagastos s lahat. Kasal po kami at bilang legal wife ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin kasi mula po last month installment na ang gngwa nyang pagppdala para s budget ng baby nya and puro nlng po paninisi ang sinasabi nya sa akin.Pwede ko po ba shang kasuhan dhl ginigipit nya po ako ngaun at pwersahan nya akong sinasabihan na mag hanap n ng trabaho. Emotionally stress n stress npo ako sa sitwasyon ko ngaun dahil may sakit po ang baby namin alam niya un pero balewala lang s knya

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  59. Good pm. Please give me advice. I am a married woman with two children. I filed a case against my husband for vawc since he is living with his mistress and I have discovered it. May I ask if our financial instability due to our unpaid debts can be a defense of my husband and palusot niya bakit siya may kabit, as what he always tell me and blackmail me? He has caused psychological and emotional stress not only to me but to my children as well. And he has abandoned us so as to live with his mistress. Please enlighten me. I would appreciate if you can send me your advice at ljwork7576@yahoo.com. Thanks.

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  60. anu po bang pwedeng ikaso sa asawa na nanakit at lagi akong pinagmumura
    lalaki po ako ung babae po ang abusive, wala po akong nakitang law para sa mga lalaking may sitwasyon kagaya ko

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  61. Attorney good morning! i have this very serious problem on the father of my child we are not married but were leaving together, When we are leaving with his parents his always hurting me physically when we have confrontation. I taught he will change when we live away from his parents but then I am so wrong, Everytime we have confrontation he is always hu8rting me physically and emotionally with our child watching him hurting me. I always hope he will change after we live away from his parents but i was wrong. When he is mad he always hurting me physically. but I am always tolerating everything hoping he will change and our child will grow up with a complete family but untill now for 4 months away from his parents still his hurting me so much. So i realize his not going to change anymore. What should I do. Can he be inprison for such act towards me and our child. He is hurting me even in the present of our child watching him hurting me. I need Some advice and help. thank you

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  62. Gusto ko lang po magtanong about sa nangyayari sa kaibigan ko. Yung father nya po kaso is laging nagtetext na papatayin nya daw po yung mother niya(asawa nya po bali) at kung di raw po magpapakita yung asawa niya e papatayin niya yung friend ko. Wala po akong maadvice kasi. Problemado na yung kaibigan ko at takot na takot na po. Nitext din po kasi siya na di daw po makakagraduate yung kaibigan ko, e graduating pa naman po sya. Paano ko po sya matutulungan?

    *more than 6 yrs na walang communication ang parents nya
    *nagOFW yung mom nya para makatakas sa father na nangbubogbog
    *nasa lolo (mother side po yung kaibigan ko at kapatid niya nakatira)

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  63. Sir I need help po regarding verbal and physical abuse please help me this is my email add shortpotbelly@gmail.com

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  64. Sir I need help po regarding verbal and physical abuse please help me this is my email add shortpotbelly@gmail.com

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  65. Sir Isang grupo ng kalalakihan ang umiinom ng alak at nakursunadahan nila ang anak kong lalaki, pinuntahan namin ang aming anak para sunduin sa lugar na yon subalit nagkarron ng kaguluhan, nasakatan po ang aking anak at asawa kung saan ang aking maybahay ay nasugatan sanhi ng pagpukpok ng bote ng alak, suntok at tadyak sa katawan (Slight physical injury po ang resulta ng medical). Pwede po ba namin silang ireklamo ng paglabag sa Republic Act 9262. Salamt po.

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  66. Good day, itatanong ko lang po sana kung maaari bang lumapit sa h.r. ng company na pinapasukan ni mr. Si wife Para sa direktang suporta ni mr? Anu po kaya ang tsansa na pakinggan si wife at paano po ang proseso at anu2 ang mga documents o ebidensya na dapat na iprovide

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  67. Good day, itatanong ko lang po sana kung maaari bang lumapit sa h.r. ng company na pinapasukan ni mr. Si wife Para sa direktang suporta ni mr? Anu po kaya ang tsansa na pakinggan si wife at paano po ang proseso at anu2 ang mga documents o ebidensya na dapat na iprovide

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  68. good afternoon sir/mam,
    ask klng, po kng anu pwd ikaso sa isang babae na may ka live in 4yrs, tpus nagpakasal sa iba at nakarun ng anak?

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  69. Good Evening po hihingi lang po sana ako sa inyo ng payo 6months na po akong buntis ngayon,ung boyfriend ko po parang walang pakialam smen ng anak niya mas inuuna niya pa po ang mga luho niya kaysa sa amin..Nung una po hinayaan ko lang na di nia ko tulungan s mga gastos sa check up at vitamins ko dahil nag aaral pa siya kaso nalaman ko po na umuubos xa ng Php20,000.00 para lang sa pagpapaset up ng motor niya..mas binibigyan niya din po ng oras ung mag outing kesa ang samahan kami ng anak niya mag pacheck up..pinamumuka niya di po saken na mas importante ung isa pa niyang gf kesa sa akin kahit alam niya n may mga responsibilidad po siya sa amin..puro pangako lang di po siya na ihaharap niya s magulang ko ang mama niya pero hanggang ngayon di niya po maiharap puro po siya dahilan.. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin pwede ko po ba siyang sampahan ng kaso kasi po hirap na hirap n ko s sitwasyon ko simula pa lng po ng pag bubuntis ko lagi n lng po akong umiiyak puro stress lang di po inaabot ko sa kanya alam ko po na naapektuhan ung bata s loob ng tiyan ko kaso po wala na ko magawa sobrang hirap po tlga ko sa mga nangyayari..sana po ay matulungan ninyo ako please po.

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  70. Good Evening po hihingi lang po sana ako sa inyo ng payo 6months na po akong buntis ngayon,ung boyfriend ko po parang walang pakialam smen ng anak niya mas inuuna niya pa po ang mga luho niya kaysa sa amin..Nung una po hinayaan ko lang na di nia ko tulungan s mga gastos sa check up at vitamins ko dahil nag aaral pa siya kaso nalaman ko po na umuubos xa ng Php20,000.00 para lang sa pagpapaset up ng motor niya..mas binibigyan niya din po ng oras ung mag outing kesa ang samahan kami ng anak niya mag pacheck up..pinamumuka niya di po saken na mas importante ung isa pa niyang gf kesa sa akin kahit alam niya n may mga responsibilidad po siya sa amin..puro pangako lang di po siya na ihaharap niya s magulang ko ang mama niya pero hanggang ngayon di niya po maiharap puro po siya dahilan.. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin pwede ko po ba siyang sampahan ng kaso kasi po hirap na hirap n ko s sitwasyon ko simula pa lng po ng pag bubuntis ko lagi n lng po akong umiiyak puro stress lang di po inaabot ko sa kanya alam ko po na naapektuhan ung bata s loob ng tiyan ko kaso po wala na ko magawa sobrang hirap po tlga ko sa mga nangyayari..sana po ay matulungan ninyo ako please po.

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  71. Good Evening po hihingi lang po sana ako sa inyo ng payo 6months na po akong buntis ngayon,ung boyfriend ko po parang walang pakialam smen ng anak niya mas inuuna niya pa po ang mga luho niya kaysa sa amin..Nung una po hinayaan ko lang na di nia ko tulungan s mga gastos sa check up at vitamins ko dahil nag aaral pa siya kaso nalaman ko po na umuubos xa ng Php20,000.00 para lang sa pagpapaset up ng motor niya..mas binibigyan niya din po ng oras ung mag outing kesa ang samahan kami ng anak niya mag pacheck up..pinamumuka niya di po saken na mas importante ung isa pa niyang gf kesa sa akin kahit alam niya n may mga responsibilidad po siya sa amin..puro pangako lang di po siya na ihaharap niya s magulang ko ang mama niya pero hanggang ngayon di niya po maiharap puro po siya dahilan.. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin pwede ko po ba siyang sampahan ng kaso kasi po hirap na hirap n ko s sitwasyon ko simula pa lng po ng pag bubuntis ko lagi n lng po akong umiiyak puro stress lang di po inaabot ko sa kanya alam ko po na naapektuhan ung bata s loob ng tiyan ko kaso po wala na ko magawa sobrang hirap po tlga ko sa mga nangyayari..sana po ay matulungan ninyo ako please po..

    Godbless

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  72. Good Evening po hihingi lang po sana ako sa inyo ng payo 6months na po akong buntis ngayon,ung boyfriend ko po parang walang pakialam smen ng anak niya mas inuuna niya pa po ang mga luho niya kaysa sa amin..Nung una po hinayaan ko lang na di nia ko tulungan s mga gastos sa check up at vitamins ko dahil nag aaral pa siya kaso nalaman ko po na umuubos xa ng Php20,000.00 para lang sa pagpapaset up ng motor niya..mas binibigyan niya din po ng oras ung mag outing kesa ang samahan kami ng anak niya mag pacheck up..pinamumuka niya di po saken na mas importante ung isa pa niyang gf kesa sa akin kahit alam niya n may mga responsibilidad po siya sa amin..puro pangako lang di po siya na ihaharap niya s magulang ko ang mama niya pero hanggang ngayon di niya po maiharap puro po siya dahilan.. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin pwede ko po ba siyang sampahan ng kaso kasi po hirap na hirap n ko s sitwasyon ko simula pa lng po ng pag bubuntis ko lagi n lng po akong umiiyak puro stress lang di po inaabot ko sa kanya alam ko po na naapektuhan ung bata s loob ng tiyan ko kaso po wala na ko magawa sobrang hirap po tlga ko sa mga nangyayari..sana po ay matulungan ninyo ako please po..

    Godbless

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  73. Good Evening po hihingi lang po sana ako sa inyo ng payo 6months na po akong buntis ngayon,ung boyfriend ko po parang walang pakialam smen ng anak niya mas inuuna niya pa po ang mga luho niya kaysa sa amin..Nung una po hinayaan ko lang na di nia ko tulungan s mga gastos sa check up at vitamins ko dahil nag aaral pa siya kaso nalaman ko po na umuubos xa ng Php20,000.00 para lang sa pagpapaset up ng motor niya..mas binibigyan niya din po ng oras ung mag outing kesa ang samahan kami ng anak niya mag pacheck up..pinamumuka niya di po saken na mas importante ung isa pa niyang gf kesa sa akin kahit alam niya n may mga responsibilidad po siya sa amin..puro pangako lang di po siya na ihaharap niya s magulang ko ang mama niya pero hanggang ngayon di niya po maiharap puro po siya dahilan.. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin pwede ko po ba siyang sampahan ng kaso kasi po hirap na hirap n ko s sitwasyon ko simula pa lng po ng pag bubuntis ko lagi n lng po akong umiiyak puro stress lang di po inaabot ko sa kanya alam ko po na naapektuhan ung bata s loob ng tiyan ko kaso po wala na ko magawa sobrang hirap po tlga ko sa mga nangyayari..sana po ay matulungan ninyo ako please po..

    Godbless

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  74. i am 17 yrs old n filed a case to my husband under R.A. 9262 last april 25,2016 in TARLAC TC but im now here in mindanao,can i transfer my complained here or file another case

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  75. patulong nman po.urgent po..my live in partner po ako .tas may nabuntisan siyang ibang babae..nung una po supporta sa bata ang hiningi niya.binigay po nmin un..pero nung april nagbakasyon po ako sa province tas yong babae nagpopost ng picture nila ng asawa ko saying they were back together..samantalang d nman po kami naghiwalay. d rin po sumusuporta ung lalaki sa anak nmin..patuloy pa rin po yong babae sa pagpopost ng mga picture nila ng nagkabalikan na nila.anu po pwede kong gawin sa asawa at babae.salamat po sana matulungan niyo ko..

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  76. patulong nman po.urgent po..my live in partner po ako .tas may nabuntisan siyang ibang babae..nung una po supporta sa bata ang hiningi niya.binigay po nmin un..pero nung april nagbakasyon po ako sa province tas yong babae nagpopost ng picture nila ng asawa ko saying they were back together..samantalang d nman po kami naghiwalay. d rin po sumusuporta ung lalaki sa anak nmin..patuloy pa rin po yong babae sa pagpopost ng mga picture nila ng nagkabalikan na nila.anu po pwede kong gawin sa asawa at babae.salamat po sana matulungan niyo ko..

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  77. Hi po,good morning gusto ko din po humingi ng advice tungkol sa pagsampa ng mga ganyan kaso na RA9262 matagal na po kami hiwalay ng asawa ko ako po ang hindi na nakatiis sa kanya dahil bukod din po sa babaero sya nanakit din po physically and mentally abuse po sinapit ko at ng aking mga anak sa kanya at sa pamilya nya ngayon po both kami asa abroad ang mga anak ko asa parents ko po nagtalo po kami last month dahil sa sustento nya so nagkaroon kami ng sagutan tas po siguro dahil nagalit sya sa mga sinabi na totoo naman naphiya ko daw sya sa gf nya dal un gf po nya un nkabasa ng msgs ko sa FB nya sabi nya sa anak ko hindi nya sinabi ng directly sa kin sabi nya sabihin daw sa akin na sa korte na lang daw kami magkita dahil nagpapafile po sya talaga ng annulment sa kasal namin kasi po aaminin ko nagkaroon na ako ng anak sa iba dito sa abroad so ang balita ko sa isang kamaganak nya uuwi sya ng biglaan this year sa pinas para magfile ng kaso against me po pero parang unfair naman sa akin na hindi naman ako magkakaganito din magpaanak sa iba un naging responsable sya sa mga anak ko ever since po sabi ng friend ko advice nya kahit daw nagkaanak ako sa iba pde ko daw sya unahan ng RA9262 nga daw po dal kulang din po un sustento nya sa mga anak ko parang lagi pa magmakaawa un mga anak ko ng paghingi sa kanya.
    Sana po makakuha po ako ng magandang advice at ng malinawan po ako un pano gagawin ko sa kanya menor de edad pa po un bunso namin.salamat po
    honey.4772.malaysia@gmail.com

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  78. goodmorning po...
    ... hingi lang po sana ako advice sa inyo kung ano pwede kung gawin sa problema ko patungkol sa husband ko po na sana abu dhabi, united arab emirates...nagpakasal po siya dun ng hindi ko alam sa isang filipina noong april 2, 2016......ngaun araw ko lang po nalaman....hindi ko lang alam kung naging legal ang kasal nila... may picture po ako na kinasal sila.....yung ginagamit na name ng husband ko po dun ay iba....in short fake yung name na ginagamit niya..... Nagtataka po ako kung bakit sila nakasal dalawa , eh lahat naman ng papeles na mayron siya doon fake including his birth certificate........legally kasal po kame husband ko..rehistrado po yung kasal namin..yung totoong birthcertificate niya na sakin din po.... may isang anak po kame ng husband ko yung sustento po na binibigay niya 5,000 po every month...tama lang po ba sinusuporta niya? sa pgkakaalam ko po sumasahod po siya doon ng 40, 0000....pwede po ba akong humingi na pataas niya yung sustento niya sa anak namin lalo na po ngaun mag.aaral na ng day care anak namin.... gusto ko lang po esecure future ng anak namin po...... at higit sa lahat po pwede po bang mapauwi husband ko sa ginawa niyang pagkakasal sa iba? pareho po kaming muslim dalawa..hindi ko lang po alam sa babae niya kung ngcovert ba ng religion namin..ang pgkakaalam ko christian yung babae nya..


    eto po yung email add ko:dnoraiza@yahoo.com

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  79. Good morning. Tanung lang po lalaki po ako sinasampahan po ako ng vawc ng dati Kong kinakasama mag iisang taon napo kami hiwalay may anak po nagging dahilan po ang third party umpisa palang po di kami lagi nag kakaunawaan dumating po sa punto na nagkaroon ako ng karelasyon na hanngang sa ngayon po Ay kinakasama ko yung anak kopo naiwan sa dating Kong nobya ngayon po may asawa napo sya ang tanung ko lang po tama po ba na tangalan ako ng karapatan sa anak ko gayung buhay pa namn po ako at gusto ko makasama ang anak pinsan minsan.. Sya din po mismo ang nagsabi na wala na sya paki Alam sakin at wag ko nadawa po sya pakialaman kadi masaya nadaw po sila ng anak ko sa bago nya kinakasama nagtataka lang po ako na bakit nagsampa po sya ng kaso

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  80. Sir.. good day. I filed a case if VAWC against my husband...this is my email address: czarinadelima.2014@gmail.com

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  82. sir good day ask q lng po bout sa kaso ng father ng baby q knasuhan xa ng rape ng ex gf nya nung my ngyari sa knila tapos habang nagsex cla ngbleeding ung babae sobrang dmi ng dugo kya ntaranta ung father ng bebi q tinawag nya mama nya para humingi ng tulong at mdala s ospital halos ng 50/50 ung girl pg dting s ospital pnapaalis nya n ung father ng bebi q dhil d dw nya alm ugali ng pamilya nya ung girl rape b n matatwag ung gnwa ng father ng baby q eh dinala pa nga xa s ospital dhil s ngyari kng ni rape tlga xa dpat tnakbuhan nlng xa hnd ngkaron p ng concern s knya ung guy sna po mtulungan nyo kmi thanks..

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  83. eto po email q rizakenyesha_08@yahoo.com thanks

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  84. Good morning Atty Singzon,
    Gusto ko po malaman kung ano dapat kong gawin sa husband ko na may ibang babae doon sa U.A.E, yung husband ko po eh nasa Abu Dhabi while yung babae nasa Dubai pero pagdating ng weekend pinupuntahan ng husband ko yung babae sa Dubai.
    Nalaman ko po lahat dahil sa facebook at nagmessage yung babae sa akin sa facebook messenger at tumawag pa sa cellphone ko. Ang kwento po kasi nung babae eh sinabi daw ng husband ko sa kanya na matagal na kaming hiwalay, at bago pa daw ako dumating sa buhay ng husband ko at pinakasalan eh siya daw yung unang minahal at matagal na daw syang hinahanap ng husband ko. Pwede ko ba sila kasuhan dun sa U.A.E?
    I've been pyhsically,mentally and verbally abused. Gusto ko po siyang kasuhan ng violence against women and children.
    Yung husband ko nung nagsama kami sa Qatar at Pinas binubogbog niya ako pero di ko siya pinablotter kasi kala ko magbabago pa siya pero hindi pala.

    Sana po Atty. mabibigyan nyo ako ng kaukulang payo kung ano ang dapat kung gawin.
    Thanks
    Email add: pacanatwins2016@yahoo.com

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  85. Good morning Atty Singzon,
    Gusto ko po malaman kung ano dapat kong gawin sa husband ko na may ibang babae doon sa U.A.E, yung husband ko po eh nasa Abu Dhabi while yung babae nasa Dubai pero pagdating ng weekend pinupuntahan ng husband ko yung babae sa Dubai.
    Nalaman ko po lahat dahil sa facebook at nagmessage yung babae sa akin sa facebook messenger at tumawag pa sa cellphone ko. Ang kwento po kasi nung babae eh sinabi daw ng husband ko sa kanya na matagal na kaming hiwalay, at bago pa daw ako dumating sa buhay ng husband ko at pinakasalan eh siya daw yung unang minahal at matagal na daw syang hinahanap ng husband ko. Pwede ko ba sila kasuhan dun sa U.A.E?
    I've been pyhsically,mentally and verbally abused. Gusto ko po siyang kasuhan ng violence against women and children.
    Yung husband ko nung nagsama kami sa Qatar at Pinas binubogbog niya ako pero di ko siya pinablotter kasi kala ko magbabago pa siya pero hindi pala.

    Sana po Atty. mabibigyan nyo ako ng kaukulang payo kung ano ang dapat kung gawin.
    Thanks
    Email add: pacanatwins2016@yahoo.com

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  86. Good evening po atty.
    Eto po ang scenario knina lng po 8:00pm, last Sunday po ay pinicturan ko ung jumper ng kapit bahay namin dhil kaaayos lng ng aming kuryente dahil naputol po ang main line ng meralco dito samin dahil narin po sa mga jumper. At kanina nga pong 8:00pm ay lalabas sana kmi ng asawa ko para maghapunan ngunit sa hindi inaasahang pagkakataon ay kailangan ko muna magpunta sa cr at nauna pong lumabas ang aking asawa/live-in partner na 7buwan na BUNTIS.nang palabas na po ako ng bahay ay narinig q ang aking asawa na halos maiyak sa galit nung aking pong siyang tanungin ay ito po ang sinabi nya "paglabas ko kasi bigla sila nagsabi na titingin pa yan kaya napatingin ako sa wire ng kuryente tapos sagot nila picturan nyo na ung mga jumper at palabasin MO yung asawa MO para mabugbog!!!" kaya po sumigaw ang asawa ko s kanila at sinabi "Baket ba masyado kayo affected sa pagpicture? Kababae Kong tao at buntis pa ako paparingan nyo ko?mga bakla b kayo? Guilty kyo at wala ako pakialam sa mga jumper." kaya pinigilan ko na din po siya dahil narin sa sitwasyon nya.

    Ang tanong ko po ngayon ano po ba ang maari naming gawin na legal na hakbang upang hindi na po maulit ang nangyari kanina at nagbanta narin po kasi sila.inaalala ko po kasi ang kalusugan ng aking magina na dulot ng pangyayaring ito at kung ano pa po ang maaring mangyari.mariming salamat po.
    Inaasahan ko po amg inyong mdaliang pagtugon sa aling tanong.

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    1. Ito po Pala email �� ko
      cool_destro20@yahoo.com

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  87. Hi Good morning Atty. I'm a 35 yrs old woman and got impregnated by my boyfriend. He left me without a closure. What case can I file?

    Please help me. My email is yasie010@yahoo.com

    Thank you.

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  88. Good day! Does this apply to husbands/fathers only? How about the aunt of the husband is causing emotional anguish such as threatening to use sorcery towards the pregnant woman and/or cursing her? You can contact me here: syranusai@gmail.com

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  89. Good day sir,
    I just want to ask po sana if what suit i could file sa girl na nanggugulo po sa amin ng partner ko. they have child and my partner gives support naman po. my concern is,continue po ang pangugulo niya akin that affects me emotionaly and even threat us na we should go somewhere away because shes near enough to ruin our relationship. i didn't do anything to her. I just want her to stop that i need legal action for this. Kindly help me please.Thank you sir.

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    1. This is my email sir:imissyou143@yahoo.com
      i really need your response sir.thankyou

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    2. Possibly i could sue her for threatening po?
      this is my true email add sir: kurtmybaby1106@yahoo.com
      kindly respond if you read this thank you

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  90. GOOD PO sir..i am 25 years of age..last june 13 sinapok at sinampal po aq ng asawa q....umalis po aq sa tinitirhan namin bahay.....naiblotter q po yun sa brgy.bago aq umalis...ngayon naman po binabantaan ja aq at sinabihan na teacher na kupal....yun pinundar q po na gamit inalis ja sa tinitirhan namin bahay ng wala aq permiso....tapos nsa kanya din po motor q na binabayaran q pa hanggang ngayon ano po ang maari q maging move? naaapektuhan po trabaho q......i2 po gmail account q....jessalynmbataller@gmail.com

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  91. Hi sir.

    Im 28. My husband and i were married 6 years ago. We have 2 kids.

    I would just like to know if my case falls under ra 9262:

    We used to live in their house. On my first year in their house, i found out he would leave house and would not come back for days. I asked his Mom about this and was just told he's really like this. He wouldnt even say where he's going.

    During the times he's not home which would take from 2 nights, sometimes to 22 nights, he would not reply to my messages. I would text or call him but nothing.

    He's always amiss in his responsibilities. He would not attend our children's affairs, sometimes almost missing our son's baptism. Even on important occasions like Christmas and New Year, he would not be home.

    I could not sleep at night. At times, it's what consumes me. I would check his social media accounts and also his friends'. There I would see that he's partying, going on outings, flirting with girls and all that. I would find myself crying all day and all night.

    I left their house in 2014 with my sons. But my in-laws pleaded for my firstborn. I love my in-laws because they had always been good to me. Eventually, my husband and i were in good terms again. And his habits started again.

    There are plenty of times he had put me in difficult situations as when he would suddenly leave, sometimes surreptitiously sneaking out at night, or lying big time just to LEAVE.

    This has become a vicious cycle.

    Help please.

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  92. Hi i'm leaving my email to ask more legal advice re: my husband of 7yrs who got his mistress of 18mos pregnant, 6mos now. They are together at work. My husband is a suprrvisor and the mistress is his agent. What case can i file against him and his mistress? Concubinage, psychological violence under vawc or adultery.thank you. His colleagues already filed asmin case against the two which is a terminable offense for illicit affair and immorality. rhane_ao_ilo@yahoo.com

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  93. May itatanong lang po Sana ako may nkarelasyon po kasi ako may asawa na pero bago po naging kmi hiwalay na po sila tapos po nung kmi naman ang naghiwalay bumalik po sya sa asawa nya bale po kasi buntis ako now 2months na po eh totoo po naghahabol po ako ngayon sa kanya tanong ko lang po may karapatan po ba ko maghabol case po kasi nila magasawa at di sila kasal kahit para na lang po sa bata salamat po sabi po kasi ng babae papakasuhan nya daw ako pero di naman po sila kasal

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  94. My wife is under verbal/emotional abuse by a tricycle driver for not using their "pila" and hailing a cab elsewhere. Repeatedly calling her "kuripot" which ruins her day. Can we file a complaint? vbignacio@gmail.com

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  95. Hi Atty. Happy day, Im Hannibal on a legal age of 27 I would like to ask if my partner could file a case such as physical abuse even though Im the one who is affected with the matter. She hurt me physically and I just do is "sinalag ko lang yung mga pag hahampas niya" because I dont want to hurt her. It happened that she always cut my clothes everytime she was not on the mood. Hoping that you could help to protect also myself with regard to the acuse the she filed. I am hoping that Gabriela could hear also my side with regard. Thank you and more power.

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  96. Hi Atty. Happy day, Im Hannibal on a legal age of 27 I would like to ask if my partner could file a case such as physical abuse even though Im the one who is affected with the matter. She hurt me physically and I just do is "sinalag ko lang yung mga pag hahampas niya" because I dont want to hurt her. It happened that she always cut my clothes everytime she was not on the mood. Hoping that you could help to protect also myself with regard to the acuse the she filed. I am hoping that Gabriela could hear also my side with regard. Thank you and more power.

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  98. hi good day po pwede po ba akong magtanong,ang ex gf ko po naglyas .hindi po siya missing almost two weeks narin po nag iwan po siya ng letter sa mga magulang niya as patunay na naglayas siya.pwede po ba siya maipablotter at pwed po ba siya makasuhan? 17yrs old po siya nung umalis almost at 8 days nalang po bago siya mag 18yrs old. pwede parin po ba siya maipablotter?

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  99. sir there are two (2) provisions on non-support under Section 5 of RA 9262..How do we differentiate one from the other?

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  100. Dear Sir/Madam,

    Please send me an email, my husband and I are both OFWs and I would like to know the details how to file RA 9262 while in Qatar, rb.65@outlook.com

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  101. My email cynthialeron2@gmail.com

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  102. Good day sir seek lng po aq advice regarding my problem ang husband q po ay ngttrabaho sa ibang bansa nagbakston po sya lately lng tpos 2month plng since umalis ulit sya may magmessage saakin babae which is nsa ibang bansa din nagpadala ng picture magkayakap sila ng Asawa q tinanong q ang Asawa q at umamin nga na may relasyon sila at nagkita sila nong bkasyon nya dto sa pinas ano po b pwede q ikaso sa Asawa q at sa babae nya pwede b sila mapauwi dto sa Pinas.ito po ang email q.slamat po cynthialeron2@gmail.com

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  103. Hello Atty.

    Seeking for your advice.

    I am married and we have a 1 daughter. My husband and i are working in Dubai before he left for Canada.

    He worked in a company for 7 months and NO WORK for 8 months while in Dubai. He applied for Canada as a driver and luckily he got the working Visa. He dont have the money to process all the papers and other needed papers. I used Credit Card to process all his papers and placement fee.

    Now, my husband is not anymore supporting us. He left me with a lot of obligations. Even before i support him including the burial of his mother. We also owe alot of money to people and i bear all the cost.

    Atty. i want to ask if how can i recover all the money that has been used and also, now he has a son now to another nationality in Canada. this all happened within in just a span of almost 2 years.

    I ended up broke and even be jailed for failing to pay the credit card.

    i need Help please.... twonet_2001@yahoo.com

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  104. Good day atty. Hingi lng sana ako ng advice. Nkipahiwalay na po ako sa asawa ko. Wala kming anak. Km working abroad. Nlaman nya na may girlfriend ako. But b4 that naginv faithful sko ss knsya. D ko lng ngustuhan sa knya kc never cya nagbgay sa family ko ng tulong financial. Lhat ng prea ko sa knya. Pag umuwi ako bawal mag bisita sa family ko. N piso wsla akong pera. Hanggang dumating ung point na prang nasasakal na ako. Bumalik ako abroad at d na ako nag communicate ss knya. Now may case ako na ra 9262. Cnabi ko na sa knya na mag pa annull na kmi. May warrant na din ako. Possible ba na pag uwi ko ng pinas ma hohold sko sa airport.?

    rjadagel0907@gmail.com

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  105. attorny good day po meron po ako ka live in partner simula june 15 2016 36 na po cia bago po kami magsama tinanong ko po sya kun my asawa po savi nya wala nagtanung dn po ako sa kapatid at kaibigan savi wala dn po.december 2016 nalaman ko po buntis pala ako sa kanya tuloy pa rin po pagsasama namin after 9 months po nanganak po ako wala pa po isang bwan yung anak namin nalaman ko po my asawa po pala cia tatlo anak nila at kasal po sila nalaman ko po kasi naiwan nya cp sa bahay at nka log in yung fb dun ko po nabasa lahat.nung nalaman ko po gusto ko makipaghiwalay eh ayaw nya at gsto nya na rin mag file ng annualment sa asawa nya.pero attorny nalaman po ng asawa nya na my babae cia at ngayon gsto mag file ng case.anu po dapat namin gawin ako naman po unang una hnd ko po alam my asaw cia pati ba ako makakasuhan?if ever po mangyari yun anu po pwd ko gawin para hnd ako makasuhan?my email add.po Desiere_medina@yahoo.com

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  106. may anak po asawa ko sa iba.. . At kasama po nya magulang nya sa pagtatago nun hanggang sa malaman ko po. hiwalay na din po sila nung babae pero andun ang anak nya. Pwede ko po ba sya kasuhan

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  107. Good afternoon Atty.I want to seek your advice.May inutangan kami ng mga kaibigan ko ng 5-6,although 3 kami ang nag partida ng pera but since nasa pangalan ko ako ang nagbabayad,kahit di sila nagbibigay ng pambayad.Pinabaranggay po ako at nag karoon kami ng settlement na magbabayad ako every week, but naka dalawang bayad palang po ako na stroke po and livein partner ko at na half body paralyzed which naging dahilan po na di ako mka pasok sa trabaho dahil wala may mag babantay at mag asikaso sa partner ko po,kasi wala din po kaming anak, so wala ako source of income tmporarily at bumibili pa ako ng gamot araw araw, at yun din ang dahilan kung bakit di ako nakapaghulog.
    Noong January 24,2017 po pinuntahan po ako ng intutangan namin kasama nya ang 1 kasama ko nag utang at minura nya po ako sa kalsada, as qouted "Hoy bakit hindi kana naghuhulog, putang ina ka, gago ka ah!" Sinagot ko po xa kasi po na stroke ang asawa ko at hindi ako pumapasok po dahil wala pa po may magbabantay. at sinabi ko sa kanya na bakit mo ako minumura eh dapat sa barangay ka pumunta kasi may usapan tayo don, wag ka dito mag mura.malis po xa at sinundan xa ng kaibigan ko nag usap sila tapos binalikan nya ako muli at minura muli, gago ka , putang ina ka sana ikaw nalang ang na stroke, tapos umalis napo xa at sumunod din ang kaibigan ko.Sa totoo lang nanginginig ako sa nerbyos, galit at kahihiyan. Ano po ba ang pwede kung gawin? Pwede ko po ba syang kasuhan? Please help me nman po.email add ko po ay jalferezz2363@gmail.com.Thank you po and God bless

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  109. Yung tatay ko po kasi lasingero tapos palagi nlng niya po minumura ang nanay ko at pinagtatangkaan niya rin po itong saktan at palayasin sa bahay ang aking nanay..ano po pa ang dapat kong gawin...please help me..email address ko po ay rolen_jover@yahoo.com...thank you po godbless po..


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  112. I'm also experiencing same problem with the previous post. I just want to leave my e-mail for further discussion.
    cherryltauro02@gmail.com

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  113. Hi atty! I would like to ask you some questions,me and my bf been live-in for 7years now and we have 1
    Child na 7yrs old na rin. Kaso bigla nya kami iniwan ng bata dis January for unexplained or clear reasons, but before that month of December umuwi cya from out of town work to realize na bnigayn nya ako std, 2 kimds of std (gonorrhea & chlamydia) to be exact. I was totally depress, and emotionally tortured And now he leave us after our couple of check ups, now wen i ask about sa financial support tinitipid nya kme ng bata, he knows that i need to follow up my checkup to my obgyne because the doctor advice us to have hiv test kaso hindi ko nga po mgawa since 2k lng ang inabot nya pra lng daw sa bata un.. mxado ang na depress kc bukod sa bsta pag iwan nya sa amin iniicp ko pa ung infidelity nya at ung pag hawa nya s aakin ng skit.. aside from it ung Kalagayan nmin ng bata kse wala nmn akonb work..
    Paano po kya? Pwede ko po b cya kasuhan sa gnawa nya na pag iwan sa akin pagkatapos nya ako bigyan ng skit at mag demand ng tama pra sa pag papa gmot at sustento ng bata? Please help me po.. i am emotionally tortured kc hindi nya po 1sttym gnwa ang png babae this is 3rd time and sobrng na depress po ako

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  114. Please email me
    @dee.emshoppe@gmail.com

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  115. My sister age 46 years old has an epilepsy since she was a child. She lives with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend work outside the town on weekdays. On Friday night she was beaten by the neighbor due to some disagreement. She has swollen face, arms and legs. According to the story, two men held her on both sides of her arms while the 3rd person is beating her and the 4th person is watching. What course of actions do we need to do and protect my sister from people like that.

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    1. pls email me at kentjan27@gmail.com

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  116. sana po ay masagot nyo po ang aking katanungan...

    may bf po ako. kasal sya sa una pero hiwalay na si pero hindi legally..hindi na sila nagsasama... may anak na din kami pero hindi naman din kami nagsasama... nasa puder ng bf ko ung anak namin dahil nagwowork ako... ngayon nag file ng case yung ex-wife nya ng concubinage. hindi naman namin kinakabahala.. ang gusto ko malaman if may pwede akong ikasa sa ex-wife nya dahil muntik ng masakatn ng ex-wife nya baby ko which is 5months old palang nung minsan sumugod sa kanila at nagtrespass... kinuhanan pa nya ng picture ang anak namin proweba daw.. alam ko wala ako karapatan kasi kasal pa sila pero hindi nakikipagusap ng maayos ung partido nung babae at lagi nagko-cause ng gulo sa buhay nung bf ko.. malayo ako sa kanila kaya ang ginugulo lang lagi eh bf ko. to the point na pinagbantaan pa ng tatay nung exwife nya yung bf ko.. pati yung nanay ng bf ko natotrauma na sa ginagawa nila. kahit siya ang legal wife ibig sabihin ba nun lahat ng gagawin nya eh ok lang o walang limitasyon dahil sa idea na sya ang legal wife? pati atm ng bf ko kinukuha nung nanay ng exwife nya... sana po masagot nyo katanungan ko. salamat po... shobe1388@yahoo. com

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  117. Hi! Sana po matulungan ninyo kami...
    My brother was charged for violation of RA 9262 Sec 5(i) - causing mental or emotional anguish to the woman (due to) denial of financial support for their common child.

    Hindi po sila kasal. What happened was they had a back break up. My brother decided to break up with her finally after years of trying to mend the relationship with no success. Ang akala niya okay na 'yung usapan nila nung babae. Apparently the woman is vindictive. Hindi niya matanggap na hiniwalayan siya ng kapatid ko so she filed a case of violation of RA 9262 against my brother. Since it's RA 9262, more or less mabilis na naiakyat sa piskalya 'yung kaso. She was saying that my brother deprived their common child of financial support - citing instances na nagkaroon ng gap sa remittance ng brother ko (my brother is an OFW). My brother submitted his evidence (fortunately, naitago niya pala yung mga resibo ng remittances niya) and explained the reasons for the gaps.

    To make the the long story short, they went through mediation and all. Apparently, the woman doesn't want to settle. Kinausap na rin siya ng kapatid ko at ng parents namin pero walang nangyari. This is what we are perplexed about as to why she doesn't want to settle since the case is deprivation of financial support. My brother is willing, and in fact, has always complied with this. Wala namang problema. So, we are thinking that maybe what she is hoping for is a conviction then a punishment of imprisonment. Kasi nga naman, if my brother gets imprisoned, more or less, talagang sira ang buhay niya. So this stresses us out. So what we want to know is - in cases of deprivation of financial support, and if a person is found guilty, will he be punished by imprisonment?

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  118. Hello.
    My wife abandoned me over three months ago, abandoning the conjugal home.
    She recently returned, smashed her way in, attacked me, and then twisted the story around to allege that I attacked her... then filed an RA9262 complaint against me.
    1. After three months being gone, does she still have the right to violently force her way in?
    2. As I was simply defending myself (she went and got a medical certificate indicating a slight red mark on her ass), is self defense an adequate legal defense?
    I really want to counter charge for Qualified Trespass as under FC 101, she was already gone more than 90 days when she came back to attack me.

    Any thoughts? Thank you

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  119. Hello.
    My wife abandoned me over three months ago, abandoning the conjugal home.
    She recently returned, smashed her way in, attacked me, and then twisted the story around to allege that I attacked her... then filed an RA9262 complaint against me.
    1. After three months being gone, does she still have the right to violently force her way in?
    2. As I was simply defending myself (she went and got a medical certificate indicating a slight red mark on her ass), is self defense an adequate legal defense?
    I really want to counter charge for Qualified Trespass as under FC 101, she was already gone more than 90 days when she came back to attack me.

    Any thoughts? Thank you

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  120. im a wife of a ChiefCook. nagpakasal kami September 29 2015 pirmado ako as allottee sa manning company nila. d kami nagsama kase umalis din agad ako pabyahe sa qatar. nung nakarating na aq sa qatar ang dami n nya rason at inaway n ako ng inaway na kesyo habang natutulog aq may nakita dw syang lalaki na nagising saakim. which is Malabo Mangyare. nag deactivate ako ng fb naputol communication namin. never ako nakatanggap ng allottement. at according din sakanya pinutol nya Daw allottement ko. ngaun 2017 jan jmuwi sya pinas hanggang March makita kita namin thpugh he blocked me sa fb may gf na sya. kaplace nua din sa gen san. i have copies of pic and videos n may nagkikiss pa. andto ako sa pinas ngaun nakasakay na sya ng barko hnd ko alam gagawin ko kase Legally and as a legal.....

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  121. Dear atty may dati ako ka live in at nagkaanak kame pero di kame kasal ngayun kasal na ako sa ibang babae pero nagbibigay kame nang supirta kaso ang asta niya pagnadedelay halit at nagthrethreat na guguluhin niya ang pamilya nang asawa ko ngayun wala ako trabaho asawa ko lang ang meron.

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  122. Hi. I need legal advice. Im a mother of a two year old child. Been living with my parents and sisters since i got pregnant till now. Mainly becbat first my husband said that he will go abroad and no one will take care of me and my child, now he is still trying to apply abroad.. Then last May 10 we had an argument and caused him to hurt me physically. I dont have any medico legal bec it was not my intention on pursuing this to court. I then txtd him that i dont want to see him anymore and he will also not see my child bec i was really afraid. Then he said that he will take my daughter from me and file a case. I dont know what to do anymore. Pls help. Thank you.

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  123. I'm a paralegal, so I welcome an attorney to correct me, but I have seen this situation over and over again.
    If your child is under 7 years, making a case to take the child would be extremely different. He would need to prove that you are an unfit mother.
    Also, with no medical certificate, it would be very hard for you to file a case also.
    The best solution would be to meet at a neutral and safe location and try to work out a support and visitation schedule that you can both agree on. Even the local barangay could help in that.
    If it goes to the courts, you're both looking at lots of money and years of hearings.
    Good luck and be safe.

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  124. Good Morning! Can I sue my ex boyfriend using RA9262? I've been in long distance relationship with a Mariner. He's from Luzon and I'm from Visayas. Noong bumaba sya ng barko pinuntahan nya ako dto, he stayed here for 4 days. Pero hindi sya pumanta sa bahay, we stayed at the Pension House. Then, nahuli ko pong may mga nagfflirt sakanya na mga babae, and he told me that he still affected sa mga nangyayari sa ex niya na even though hindi na dapat. He ask a chance again, and binigyan ko siya ng chance. Then, bago siya nakasampa ulit we found out na buntis ako. At first, sabi nya papanagutan nya. At noong nasa barko na sya nahuli ko ulit sya na nkikipagcommunicate pa sya sa ex nya, then I msg he's ex girl friend na tumigil na kasi buntis ako, but inaway lang ako. At nalaman ko pang sinisiraan ako ng boyfriend ko sakanya, childish at immature daw ako. Hindi ko kinaya yung sakit at stress sa mga nangyari sa amin lalo na't nag-aaral pa ko, nakunan ako. Then, he gave up. I ask him na kung pwede ayusin namin kahit na nakunan na ako kasi may nangyari samin but he ignored me. Even his parents, I tried to talk to them, pero sinabihan nila ko na "Hindi daw nila kailangan ng taong katulad ko" I'm mentally and emotionally suffering right now lalo na't walang alam yung parents ko sa mga nangyayari sakin. Sana po matulungan ninyo ako. Salamat

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    1. hi sis you cant file ra9262....sayanag sis nakunan ka pa....may pang kaso sana ka sa kanya....

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  125. Hello po!!!
    I filed ra9262 sa Daddy ng anak q, we're not married. After ng first hearing his atty ask me whether i wanted a settlements. I said no, but on second thought to get this over i might agree on settlement. I don't want any monthly support sana, ayoko na rin sana kasi ng magkoroon pa ng koneksyon sa kanya. So pwd po ba na 1time big time ung settlements? And how much it maybe? We have two years old child po. And bumalik sya smin nung maeengage nq sa iba at pinagdecide nya q so i choose him and i broke up sa BF q. I thought kasi mas maganda na buo ang pamilya at since sya ang tatay ng anak q mas safe kmi sa knya. I warned him na bago sya makipag usap skin ayoko na ng lies at dapat ipaalam nya lht sa kinakasama nya and he agree. He made so much promises and good words na akala q hiwalay na sila ng kinakasama nya, and later na discover Ko na hnd p pla. And worst ngkasama pa kmi sa iisang bubong and dun na ng umpisa ang gulo. In the morning he grabbed me while im seating on the bed and dragged me out while buhat q ang anak nmin. He went to work at naiwan aq at anak q umiiyak sa labas ng condo while we are half naked.
    We met sa work nmin before and dhl sa nature of work nmin nilipat aq ng ibang department when i got pregnant, eventually dhl sa stress at hnd q linya ung work i resigned. So now wla aq work but i have small business.
    I told him before na ok lng na whnd xa mg support dhl lagi nmn nya sinusumbat smin.
    Please email me atty @ doblekara2015@yahoo.com
    Thanks

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  126. hello sir can u advice me? my boyfriend po ako seaman at sa 4 years namin nabuntis niya ako, nag lumabas na ang bata hindi siya nagsusustento , by the way ang dala apelido ng bata ay sa akin. hanggang sa nadiscover my nabuntis din siya dati at wala din siya pakialam sa bata. ano po dapat gawin? nakasakay na siya ngayon pwede po ba magfile ng complaint sa marina regarding this problem, kac nasa rule kapag nakabuntis ang seaman dapat panagutan kahit hindi kasal

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  128. Hello po may mga few questions lang po ko sana masagot po ninyo.

    1. Pag public crime po ba may mga fees na dapat bayaran?

    2. Ang magiging lawyer ko po ba dito ay mismong prosecutor?

    Salamat po ��

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  129. Nasa PAO na po ang case namin ng fathr ng anak ko. Seaman siya, when I filed the case nasa pinas siya. Ilang beses siya na binigyan ng notice of appearance sa PAO pero never po siyang nagpakita. Sabi ng atty ng PAO sa akin, kung hindi daw un ang tamang address or home address baka wla din mapupuntahan ang case. 3 times nagpadala ang PAO home address niya pero no response. Hanggang nalaman ko na lang po na naka alis na siya ng bansa olit. Ano po ba dapat kung gawin dito Atty? nagpunta akong POEA pinasa rin nila ako olit sa PAO or DSWD. please help me po. thank you

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  130. anonymous
    pls i need an advice.my husband is very kind and good provider yet, the PROBLEM is we're married for ten years and he's handling my ATM CARD for ten years.in short i haven't experienced to hold it or enjoy my salary for TEN YEARs...but this time i realized im fed up of it,i know that im suffering from FINANCIAL ABUSE but of course he's my husband and i love him...so many times i tried to explain my side that I DO WANT TO HOLD MY OWN ATM CARD but he explained to me that he's doing this so that we may have a better life.i understand his side ,as a matter of fact we have built a mansion house for he's very good in handling money...but my point is I DO NEED TO HOLD MY OWN ATM CARD.i felt that im his working slave though he is a good provider and good husband.please somebody help to give an advice.....

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  131. Mr / Mrs
    Lalo na sa buong mundo, kailangan mong mag-utang ng pera sa pagitan ng mga indibidwal upang malagpasan ang mga problema sa pinansya sa huli ay masira ang hindi pagkakasundo na napatunayang ng bangko, sa pamamagitan ng pagtanggi ng iyong aplikasyon sa pautang. Kami ay isang network ng mga pribadong eksperto sa pananalapi na maaaring gumawa ng mga pautang para sa halagang kailangan mo at may mga kondisyon na gawing mas madali ang iyong buhay. Matutulungan ka namin sa mga sumusunod na lugar:
    Pananalapi *
    * Home Loan
    * Pamumuhunan sa Pautang
    * Mga Auto Loan
    * Utang pagpapatatag
    * Linya ng utang
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    * Cash acquisition
    Ikaw ay mapagmataas, ang mga bangko ay ipinagbabawal at hindi ka makinabang sa bangko o mas mahusay kang magkaroon ng isang proyekto at nangangailangan ng financing, masamang kredito o kailangan ng pera upang magbayad ng mga bill, pera upang mamuhunan sa negosyo. Habang handa kami na maglingkod sa iyo para sa iyong personal na aplikasyon ng pautang mula € 500 hanggang € 10 milyon para sa bawat partikular na maaaring magbayad ng 2% na rate ng interes. Nasa posisyon kami upang matugunan ang aming borrower sa loob ng 2 oras matapos matanggap ang kanilang aplikasyon.
    Mangyaring makipag-ugnay sa amin para sa higit pang mga detalye;
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  132. Goodmorning sir,
    Magatatanong lang po sana ako.Kasi po yung lola ko po nakitira samin pero ayaw ng nanay ko . Eventualy tumira pa rin po xa kahit ayaw ng nanay ko dahil na tin pianayagan ng tatay ko. -Ngayon po ksi may kapatid ako na mentaly ill dahil sa kakapusan po ng pera my parent decided na ipasok xa sa loob ng isang kwarto na may rehas.Pero po my tv tubig , cr at on time din pag pinapakain xa. Ayaw lang ksi namin makasakit xa ng ibang tao kadi fi basta basta sakit nya Schizophrenia kaya minsan marahas xa. Nanakit. Kahit kami noon nagtatago sa kapitbahay namin dahil po sinsaktan nya nanay ko at tatay ko minsan may dala pang kutsilyo.Now itong lola ko po gusto nya na palabasin ung kapatid ko. So ang nangyari po ayaw ng nanay ko to think na nanay ko may ari ng bahay kung umasta po lola ko parang sa knya bahay. Sbi pa ng lola ko di daw xa aalis sa bahay namin. Yung tatay ko naman nagwawala ksi pinagtatanggol
    din lola ko. May mga kapatid din po ako na babae na minor ung isa at naapaektuhan dahil na rin sa stress na dala ng lola at tatay ko. Yung nanay ko naman may sakit sa puso. Ayaw ko lang po may mangyaring msama sa kanila ano po kaya mainam
    na gawin legally. Ang bahay namin po nakapabgalan ang rights sa nanay ko. May karapatan po ba nanay ko na paalisin lola ko. Khit pinayagan ng tatay ko na patirahin xa dun. Eto po Ang email ko arkinblake@gmail.com

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  133. Mahal na Sir / Madam, "PANGANGALAGANG PINAKAMAHALA NG PANGANGAILANGAN LABING DAAN 2DAYS hannahzaraloancompany", X-mas na Pautang, "Pautang sa Bahay, Pautang sa Negosyo sa 2% na interest rate. Ang mga taong interesado ay dapat makipag-ugnayan sa Officer sa Loan sa pamamagitan ng E-mail na may impormasyon sa ibaba:" ,

    PANGALAN:.....
    HULING PANGALAN:......
    BANSA: .......
    NUMERO NG TELEPONO:.....
    OCCUPATION: ......
    AGE: .............
    SEX: ......
    MARITAL STATUS: ......
    KAILANGANG PINAKAMAHALA NG LOAN: ......
    Buwanang kita ...
    PAGPAPALA NG LOOB: ......
    Email: hannahzaraloancompany@gmail.com, Salamat At God Bless, Regards

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  134. atty.ask ko lang po nasa dubai yung ex ko at may anak kami pero ayaw suportahan kung nsa akin ang bta..gusto nya ipaubaya ko sa mga magulang nya?pwede ba ko mag file ng ra9262 kahit nasa abroad sya?thanks po.

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  135. Good day Atty! I would like to ask for an advice regarding with my case. I was clinically depressed, I stopped taking medication before I met my recent boyfriend. Because I want to self heal. I am unemployed for a year now and self medicating. My recent boyfriend is a Manager from the Top bpo in our country, I openly shared my recent boyfriend about my depression and how sensitive I am compared to normal, also the possibility of triggering it. After few months we got into an argument at my place, I can’t remember much the reason why it occur, all I can remember is I have prepared breakfast for us and he said harsh things so I just cried hysterically because I couldn’t understand what’s happening. He was screaming at the top of his lungs and scratching his face. He even went to my kitchen to get the knife but end up getting the scissors to stab himself. I pity him for self harming that’s why I stayed, I thought It may be from his childhood and I wanted to help him, I even seek Psychiatrist for him but he didnt want to. There are times he’d threatened me to kill himself If I broke up with him. I screenshot the conversations because I don’t want to be blamed for his actions. I am not doing anything wrong in our relationship. I was giving too much effort for him but all he did was to humiliate me. He’d look down on me because I am not academically smart, and everytime he shouts at me I develop suicidal thoughts, emotional stress,and pyschological trauma. I tried fighting back by threatning him, whenever we got into arguments and I am so furious at him. He’d record the call whenever I am mad bec he knew id say such and use it against me and doesnt record the fact I said I didnt mean those and I said it because I am at rage. He was disrespecting me and he’s a narcissist. He never own up his mistakes and that pushes me to threat but those are just empty threats. Just to get out of my chest. Few weeks ago, I was invited by his manager to an event and he was humiliating me infront of his workmates, I tried to hold in because i dont want to ruin the night. After we got home, we argued and he shouted on me again until he grab my hands to slam his head. I got scratches on my knuckles. I went to 711 to buy a wrapper for my scratches. I have the pictures of it though I didnt go to medico legal or file a case. He apologizes and I forgive him like nothing happened but its always been a cycle. Whenever we fight he’d shout at me at the top of his lungs and I couldnt bear it pyschologically. It gives me anxiety. Atty, I know If I file RA9262, he will counter file me with the light threats, also with recording call. He says it gives him emotional stress and anxiety whenever I am threatning, he blames me for his actions and for shouting. Which I didnt do anything to provoke him. Please atty, I need your advice. Here’s my eadd: anonymouslyfurious@gmail.com, thank you atty.

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  136. Purihin ang Diyos, ako ay Abou El Magd sa pangalan. Gusto kong gamitin ang daluyan na ito upang alertuhan ang lahat ng mga naghahanap ng pautang upang maging maingat dahil may mga pandaraya sa lahat ng dako Ilang buwan sa likod ako ay pinansiyal na pilit at dahil sa aking kawalan ng pag-asa ako ay ginulangan ng maraming lenders online. Halos nawala ako ng pag-asa hangga't tinutukoy ako ng isang kaibigan sa isang napaka-maaasahang tagapagpahiram na may pangalang Alden Moore loan company na ipinahiram sa akin ng isang hindi secure na pautang ng 100,000 dirham sa loob ng 10 oras nang walang anumang stress. Kung ikaw ay nangangailangan ng anumang uri ng pautang makipag-ugnay sa kanya ngayon sa pamamagitan ng: (aldenmooresloanfirm@gmail.com) Ginagamit ko ang daluyan na ito upang alertuhan ang lahat ng mga naghahanap ng utang dahil sa impiyerno na ginugol ko sa mga kamay ng mga mapanlinlang na nagpapahiram
    Gantimpala tayo ni Allah at oo ang ahente.

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  137. Atty. We are getting married po sa na but 3 days before the weeding i decided to cancel our wedding everything is in please ako po lahat ang gumastos pero sa resibo pangalan po nya lahat pero wala po siyang trabaho..i know i have breached tne marriage bows and cause humiliation, i know pasok din po sa "dating relationship" kasi po nagsama po parang husband and wife..i know this are liabilities..but the reasons kaya po ako umayaw sa kasal ay inaakusahan ako ng supposed bride ko na may relasyon kmi ng hipag na asawa ng kuya ko na wala namang siyang ebedinsiya at ang gusto nyang mangyari pag nakaharap siya wag n wag kong hahalikan o kakargahin ang pamangkin ko 2yrs old..tinanong ko siya bakit nya kmi pinaghihinalaan ng hipag ang sagot po nya ay INSTICT po nya..ang tanong ko po if ever maging guilty ako under VAWC ano ang mga possibilities na penalties ko po? Salamat po ng marami.

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  139. My friend was slap hit and threaten by his boyfriend she reported what happen to the police station what case she must file? Can she file a case bousy against his boyfriend? Pls help me

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  140. Can i file a case againtst my husband an OFW under emotional violence? He was married in cìvil and church on his first wife. He is an OFW somewhere middle east. He converted into muslim b4 we got married pra hndi daw kmi makasuhan ng first wife nya and pra daw mapakasalan nya ako. We have 2 children but our youngest died recently because of illness for 11 yrs. Only then i learned that he got married again in middle east on shariah court and had a child who is 5 or 6 yrs old now. He's been cheating me for almost 8 yrs. During those yrs he's touring diff countries w/ his new family while i was the one sacrificing taking care of our sick child. I was so emotional and deppress upon learning those things, got sick and hospitalized that time samantalang cia nagpapasarap doon. Not only that, i also learned that our marriage was null and void from the very start and he know's it but he did nothing. I don't know anything about islam laws when it comes to marriage and since he is a muslim he should know what to do but he did nothing to make it legal.kaya ngaun napakadami kong problemang haharapin pati mga sa legal docs ko. Can you advise me what to do. He is supporting us financially but what if he stops it?my other child 23 yrs old na. Am i entitle to ask for spouse allowance if ever? Hope you can help me....

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  141. Good day po! Humingi po ako ng advice kung ano po dapat gawin nabuntis po yung kapatid me ng boyfriend nya ngayon pp ayaw panagutan na boyfriend kasi may girlfriend na iba. Tama po kaya na magsampa kmi ng kaso sa lalami na RA9262. At maari po kaya sya makulong? Salamat po

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  142. may kabit po asawa ko , pinapasa ng kabit mga convo nila patunay na may relasyon cla.ano pwde e sampo kong kaso at pwde ko po ba mapa tanggal sa work nya asawa ko at kabit ko heres my email.:hisonasuzette@gmail.com

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  143. bHi po atty. mag hingi lang po sana nag tulong tungkol po sa kapatid ko na na warrant at nakulog po ng bigla na di kmr nakatangap ng sopoena at ala hearing na natangap tungkol sa kaso na sinampa ng dati nyang kinakasama kinasyhan po sya ng RA 9262 sa kakulangan ng sustento pero nag susustento po cia nung una maliit lng po kasi may motor na hinuhugan kapatid ko pero ngaun po kda linggo pinapadala nya s mga ank nila 1k misan 1.5k or 2k kda linggo po pero na warrant parin cia at bat po ganun di po alam ng korte na nakulong n cia eh mag isang buwan n po nakulong ala pa po hearing sked po ilng buwan o ilang taon po ba makukulong ang kaptid ko sana po ay matulungan nyo po ako slamt po.

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  144. bHi po atty. mag hingi lang po sana nag tulong tungkol po sa kapatid ko na na warrant at nakulog po ng bigla na di kmr nakatangap ng sopoena at ala hearing na natangap tungkol sa kaso na sinampa ng dati nyang kinakasama kinasyhan po sya ng RA 9262 sa kakulangan ng sustento pero nag susustento po cia nung una maliit lng po kasi may motor na hinuhugan kapatid ko pero ngaun po kda linggo pinapadala nya s mga ank nila 1k misan 1.5k or 2k kda linggo po pero na warrant parin cia at bat po ganun di po alam ng korte na nakulong n cia eh mag isang buwan n po nakulong ala pa po hearing sked po ilng buwan o ilang taon po ba makukulong ang kaptid ko sana po ay matulungan nyo po ako slamt po.

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  145. may lasing po b ngwala sa harap ng store nmin at pati kmi ai dinamay at ako ay akma nyang babatuhin sakop po b ito ng VAWC pwedy ko po b xa ireklamo

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  146. Gusto ko po sana samapahan ng RA9262
    under economic abuse ung tatay ng baby ko nd po sya nagbibigay ng sustento

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  147. have a good day po!!and sana po ma bigyan po ninyo ako ng legal advice..may live in partner ko ako 8year na po kaming mag ka live nung nov.3 2017 umalis po siya ng bansa para pag hanap buhay para daw sa aming mag iina pero po last months of nov.2018 na papanacen ko na po na madalang na po siya na tumawag and mag chat ka amin tapus one time na kinakita ko na lng po sa what'sapp ng asawa ko ai naka lagay ng profile niya ai silang dala at nag chat na din sa akin yung babae na mag relasyion daw sila ng live in partner ko ano po ba ang dapat kung gawa?puwedi po ba akong mag file ng case under RA 9262 ?

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  148. Good Day! Atty. Direct file po ako sa court at nag file case RA 9262 sa qc. pero naiurong kaso pagkatapos makiusap ng aking asawa, pero di nya tinupad ulit pag supporta sa anak naming. Tanong puede ko pa ulit buhayin ang kaso? Jacqueline.labasay@yahoo.com

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